how do we show affection w/o getting her n2 trouble?? i mean i kno that my parents have no problem with us being together but we have to keep it at a minimum because of my little brothers (4 & 7) so we can't do anything in the house and my dad was being a smart *** and said we can't do anything in the treehouse junglegym-not that i would do that anyways... but how do we get around the rules and show a little affection without my parents yelling at us???
2006-07-24 06:58:52 · 26 answers · asked by curiously_me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep most of it for when you are in private. That makes the private time all the more special. Actually, PDA (public displays of affection) is discouraged in many cultures. When I visit my wife's family in Thailand the only PDA allowed is holding hands. No kissing. Hugging in very uncommon.
You can put your arm around her, hold her hand, place your hand on her leg, occasional hugs, kiss on the cheek, etc.
2006-07-24 07:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really shouldn't matter if you're a minor. The law really won't do anything if you two show a little affection. I'm 18, and my girlfriend is 16. We always kiss in public and whatever else we feel like doing at the moment. Try finding a place where the two of you can hang out, outside of your house.
2006-07-24 07:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by Aha! I Caught You! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur a minor dating an 18yr old, u shouldn't want to show affection, or atleast ur mate shouldn't want it. She could go to jail if she's not careful. Besides, doesn't she have a house u guys could fool around in? Or she's old enough, go to a hotel or something. Just be responsible about it. Ur parents seem cool, and u seem to understand that, just go somewhere else to do it, and make sure she has u back home by curfew.
2006-07-24 07:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your gf have a house? Do you go on dates? Do you have your own room? These are all places where you can show some affection. Clearly you are not trying hard enough.
2006-07-24 07:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy. When the young ones are off way, that's a superb time. When you are given some chores, say that it works better and lightly if you're together. last, when your parents leave for some place, mmmh, show it to each other!!
2006-07-24 07:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by kaju 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does affection have to be physical. Just be together sand have a good time. You will be 18 soon enough and then you can do what ever you want.
2006-07-24 07:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if this 18 year old is nice good looking, smart girl and looks like she knows what shes doing, no one should care, they will know you are in good hands or vise versa. If she isnt that stuff above, then dont tell anyone..act like a bum with no gf, and then leave and meet her,.
2006-07-24 07:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you live at home, your parents call the shots. What about going to her house? or a hotel. I don't think they are asking a whole lot. You will just have to restrain yourselves at your home. Be mature about it and honor your parents wishes.
2006-07-24 07:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by jhrkickin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure this is just playing because the girl might be using you to get what she wants, and you will get hurt once you find that its not really love. love can develop but at a later stage when you know whats what in life.
2006-07-24 07:03:56 · answer #9 · answered by wills 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go 2 her house or to a hotel!! If there is a problem goin to her house then maybe she has someone else.
2006-07-24 07:16:17 · answer #10 · answered by 8_letters_3_words_1_meaning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋