1st loves...2nd or even 15th loves...Past relationships, we remember more good times than bad..can you forget that one true love/relationship? Or have you not found your true love yet?
2006-07-24 06:58:46 · 16 answers · asked by ladytina30 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can never forget true love, believe me..
John
2006-07-24 07:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by Scorpion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had two REALLY deep and important relationships in my life - one I ended, one was ended on me.
It took me a really long time - a year or two - to feel totally myself again. I wasn't crying every day, or at all, but it just takes time to "bounce back" after such a close relationship.
I wouldn't undo either of them, and i appreciated all the other people I met along the way. i understand why each one ended, so that helps - even if my heart wanted it, my mind realized it would not work. And the time together was great. I learned about myself, and now any memories I have are fond and distant ones.
I don't want to "forget" either one - they made me what I am, partly. I guess friends, activities, doing things for yourself - they all help you through the initial breakup phase. I never go right into some other relationship just to not feel lonely because it's not fair to the other person, or me. I hope that with what I have learned I will find it again. I tend to go out with the same type, but that might not be the right type for me.
Everyone hated this film, but somehow "Vanilla Sky" kinda reminds me of the memories of old girlfriends in my head!
Hope this helps. Good luck.
2006-07-24 07:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to forget a love... You remember the good, bad, weird and what did I ever get myself into relationships. I never forget. Each love made me grow wiser. I learned things to do and not to do. I learned what comes first in life and I learned how to live life.
I never regret people I dated or have fallen for but I do understand that they will always be with me. They are the people in your head you make you think about the present man or woman in your relationship. Ex's are baggage and they at times make your current partner feel small when you mention or even think of a past love. But you should always tell them that your past is your past and it will come up but your future THEY are the ones who can make it great.
2006-07-24 07:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by kat_burk76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you cannot forget your true love that doesn't mean you still love them. If you always think about them and cannot consider anyone else filling that void, then you have a bigger issue! I am currently having the same problem. My ex and I split up almost two years ago and we still talk daily about how to make things better so that we can be together once again. It all depends, in your case, just how devoted you are to your own heart and whether or not you want to get over that person. Hope this helps!
2006-07-24 07:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by platinumlipps 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go is different than forget...we SHOULD let go of past relationships, or we'll have difficulty in future ones...that simply means accepting that we're no longer with that (past) person and although there were good times, we must move on...
The memories should be kept and cherished...the lessons learned never forgotton...but don't carry love for one person into a relationship with another person...it's not fun when you're dating someone who is still hung up on an ex...y'know?
2006-07-24 07:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually there are a couple of guys that hold a special place in my heart, but I have gotten over them. The thing that is most important to me is what I learned from each relationship. With every break up I try to extract something positive to help the next one to be better.
2006-07-24 07:07:26 · answer #6 · answered by drubaby32698 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you ever forget a love interest... Most of the time when we move on to other arenas, we suppress our past feeling from previous relationships, and that's a good thing. How can we expect to move on to healthier relationships if we dwell on the past one.
2006-07-24 08:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by jaeon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, time will treatment it and then there'll be issues that this individual does which will make u forget approximately on the subject of the final individual.... the final relationship will constantly be with u yet u ought to pass on and concentration in this a million cuz as a count of actuality that the recent a million is extra effectual than the previous a million. why? nicely with the aid of fact ur with that individual suitable now and not with the final a million....
2016-10-08 06:41:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
past relation especially 1st love is hard to erase frm ur memory...i'm havin the prob of gettin over it now.
2006-07-24 07:01:59 · answer #9 · answered by kuhan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My past What? I found my man and will never let him go
2006-07-24 07:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋