2006-07-24 06:53:38 · 12 answers · asked by guchhi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is impossible to fall out of love. Love is so powerful an emotion, that once it envelops you, it does not depart. True love is eternal. If you think that you were once in love but fell out of it, then it wasn’t love you were in. There are no exit signs in love, there is only an on-ramp.
2006-07-24 07:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by samz_eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One or both partners: Immaturity, seeking only the short term pleasure, fear of rejection, fear of the future, incompatible values, incompatible life goals and/or lifestyles, one or both have issues with addiction, one person likes the other but learns more about them and then realizes they are disgusting to them, one partner cheating on the other or showing preference for someone else inappropriately, insensitivity - the list could go on ad infinitum. The grand majority of the time it is a combination of these things. It's like the difference between growing a tree and a weed. If you're growing a weed that is here today and gone tommorrow you don't bother to water it, protect it nurture it or anything else. If you're growing a tree to last through the long term, you have to nurture it, show sensitivity, protect it, pull the weeds out around it without tearning the leaves off by your unresolved issues and constant mistakes. I think young people especially just tend to make alot of mistakes and for many of us it takes a long time to learn what it really takes to make a relationship last. Others just know what to do. Both people also have to have long term goals for the relationship - if it's just pleasure for now - then it's more like an addiction - the thrill and the initial pleasure wear off and it's off to the next roller coaster ride. If you're investing into a relationship with long term goals (both partners) then it can last. People depart becasue they don't understand that true love means sacrifice in a huge way and incredible amounts of forgiveness and humility - the long term is not the thrill of that first love - the long term is hard work and showing love even when you don't feel like it want to and they don't deserve it. For men, their ego gets in the way, for women it is their pride.
2006-07-24 07:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be the timing wasn't right...could be that even though they loved one another they knew they wouldn't make a good romantic couple in the long run...could be family or work issues caused them to go separate ways...
That's the best I've got for now, for such a vague question...
2006-07-24 06:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a necessary to depart i mean its an option but that doesn't mean they should , look at the bright side my frnd coz they could stay together and start a wonderful family
2006-07-24 06:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats like asking why is the sky blue?
Who Knows
2006-07-24 06:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by shewolfe25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The time wasn't right then. If they come back, then that love was real.
2006-07-24 06:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything is always a mystery, until you get used to it. this happens in life, you see somebody new, want to find out what they are made of and decide its really ordinary - then you move on to something else (which you think is mysterious until you find out and so on!)
2006-07-24 06:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by wills 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't meant to be or someone isn't ready for the commitment.
2006-07-24 06:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first, they dont see the insides and dont seee everytihng about them but it comes out later
2006-07-24 06:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not the right time in life.
2006-07-24 06:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋