Is it true that there's no good men out there?

Question

Lets talk shall we? Is it REALLY true that there's Not enough men for each woman? Is it true ( or is it just in my case) that a good man is hard to find? and if not true, where can we find them?

Answer 1

Hogwash. It's not about good or bad. It's about finding the right fit and taking a huge leap of faith.

They're there, but our society is increasingly compartmentalized, making it more difficult for men and women to actually meet.

Answer 2

Yeah, it's very true. Good men are hard to find. But the way it seems to me, good men end up with bad women, and bad men end up with good women, then they mess the good ones up. People can turn each other around if they choose to. We're all attracted to those who compliment our personalities(I think), so that's what hapens. I didn't know this, but it seems I like a guy with a bit of a wild streak. I'm a goodie,goodie, so that's not saying much, but I just want a man who can keep me on my toes--keep me interested. But he's gotta be kind, and caring, and educated, and have a job too. U'll find a god man when u least expect it. I think looking for a guy is the problem. Stop looking and see what u find.

Answer 3

No it's not true that there are not enough men for every woman! Where did you get that from! Sheeesh!
You just haven't met the right one yet!. He'll be along when you least expect it and aren't really looking! Be prepared for a great adventure that's going to take place in your life. Don't go lookin for him, he will find you!

Answer 4

Man it hard to find one. The good ones, most of them are Gay which is bad for girls, but there are some good men, guys out there we just need to keep looking.

Answer 5

Gurl ,
No there are plenty good men out there you just have to look! I mean I thought the same thing! You just have to ! Think about what you want in a man and think is it really possible!?

Answer 6

People keep saying that all the good guys are taken. My theory is that we don't get to be good until we have a good woman to show us how.

And then define good? What you think is the greatest guy on earth isn't going to be the same as what your best friend thinks is great. Hell, I still know people that think handcuffs are kinky. I think they are rather basic and can think of better things to do.

It all goes back to defining what you are looking for, so you'll know it when it arrives.

Answer 7

I'm a good man, and nobody wants me. Women want the "bad boys". I'm having trouble finding a good woman, so I guess we're both in the same boat

Answer 8

no, it's not true... there are good men out there, but they are hard to find.
undoubtedly because there really are more females than there are males.
i thought the same way you're thinking now, but
found a good guy.
i chose guys myself, in the past, but this one is the one i got after i was finally willing to accept the Lord's best for me... & then told mother to find me a man (it took her about 5 seconds to think & tell me who).
i'm still amazed about how long i searched for a good guy, couldn't find one, then>>> POW, there he was.
found him thru my precious little 79 year old mother... she had moved next door to his sister.
older/wiser folks can often give us better advice/guidance.

Answer 9

It is hard to find a good one, but can be a lot of fun too! I had to let go of the idea in my head that I couldnt date someone that wasnt my type...now I'm an equal oppertunity dater, and have met a lot of good ones! Good Luck!

Answer 10

I have a good man.The good men be the ones right up under your nose.At first I didn't like my husband when we met.But once I got to know him he really was the one for me.So just look around you.He might be fat,ugly,poor.But nine times out of ten hes the right one for you.Good luck,don't give up!