I've been dating a boy for the past month and a half and it is very awkward. It was just a mistake to go out with him but every time I try to let go, he holds on tighter. How can I break up with him with as little mess as possible?
2006-07-24 06:43:33 · 25 answers · asked by Lauren 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go through your reasons as to why you no longer wish to be with him. He will be upset for awhile, but it will pass. Better to end things now, and let both of you move on, than to delay this break up and get hurt even worse.
2006-07-24 07:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 20⤊ 4⤋
Try telling him the truth... Sit down and have a heart to heart with him, tell him that you no longer wish to be in a relationship with him, and go over the whys, why you're not attracted to him and why the relationship is not going to work.etc... Leave the door open so that you can be friends. If he becomes aggressive call the authorities.
2006-07-24 06:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by jaeon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply tell him that although you think he's a nice person, the two of you are not a good dating/romantic match. Let him know you wish him well, and that you know there is someone out there who will dig him as much as he digs them.
It's not easy to break up...but doing it tactfully and personally is the right thing to do...
Best wishes that it goes as smoothly as possible...
2006-07-24 06:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no easy way to dump him. Just be honest with him. Tell him exactly why you don't want to date him anymore. I've had girls break up with me before and not tell me why, it's worse than if I know the truth right away. Just break up with him and don't lead him on anymore, you're going to hurt him anyway.
2006-07-24 06:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by Ben 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say: look, you are a real nice guy, I am not for you though, I am sure there are lots of other girls that are. I know that I am not.I am sorry to offend you, but this is how I feel. It's over.
Try that and I guarantee you will get results.
2006-07-24 06:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey SkdJFKDJ, Well i just don't think things are going to work out, but im sure you will find someone great to take care of you, i just can't fulfill this role. Something to the extent of that, quick, easy and honest
2006-07-24 06:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him straight out that you don't want to see him anymore. Make sure that you make it a clean break. No phone calls or notes or e-mails. Don't play games either just tell him the truth.
2006-07-24 06:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by miss_nikki214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be honest with him. You can't worry about breaking his little heart, if you are not happy with someone let him know because if you are not honest he will continue to believe you both should be together.
2006-07-24 06:48:13 · answer #8 · answered by Maggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat around the bush, just tell him....a lil mess now is better than a hell of a mess later
2006-07-24 06:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and quick. Tell him you are not interested in dating him anymore and that you are sorry but can't lie to him about it. It will hurt but it will be better than dragging it out (for you and for him). Good luck - I hate break-ups - they are hard!!
2006-07-24 06:47:27 · answer #10 · answered by desmartj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simplest thing to do is,just tell him how you feel and what you want and get him out of your way!!
communication is the only key,its always better to talk it out and clear things!!
2006-07-24 07:12:05 · answer #11 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋