how do you go about showing them that you love them without being too clingy? how much can you give without hurting yourself?
2006-07-24 06:30:48 · 5 answers · asked by abstemious_entity 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only you can answer how much you can give.. because only you know your heart and your needs... giving them space lets them know you care enough to do what they need but you just let them know that although you aren't with them that you are there if they should need you... you just have to go about your life and do things to occupy your time... keep your mind active and dont' let it take over your life... that isn't fair to you or them.
2006-07-24 06:42:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think if we all knew how to answer this question then love would be easier. You give them what you think they need. If they tell you they are busy, then space your contact, to give them time. If you find yourself missing them, and thinking about them a lot, the best thing to do would be to express that, but with friends. I find when I miss someone, if I turn to my friends, then it's easier to miss them with out clinging. And just fill up your time with new hobbies and interests. This way you don't over take their time, but you still talk to them often enough so that they know you are interested. There's really no way to protect yourself from getting hurt, take it from a girl with experience. The only way to really love someone is to open up enough and risk being hurt.
2006-07-24 13:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by nazaroff831 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't. it's impossible to *not give* as much to someone you love. if u really can't do anything about it, let them go. let them move on, so u can let yourself move on. find someone who will be able to take care of your heart, and accept (and give you) the love, support, and stability you need and are offering to someone special. don't take any less than that.
2006-07-24 13:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone who is associated with u are only a part of u're life.. let them be a part. dont make them u life itself. get on with other things in life. career, friends, a good job, sports or any other hobby. have him stay important to u but occupy u're head with other things too. life is large and it only get larger .. good luck
2006-07-24 13:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let them kow how you feel. dont call everyday but just make sure they know you like them.
2006-07-24 13:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋