Silk or Real Flowers?

Question

I'm getting married in October and have been trying to figure out flowers for then. I was going to use real, but I have recently made a bouquet of silk flowers that I think looks nice. My mom, however, thinks that silk looks cheap (even though 2 days ago she loved the bouquets I designed in silk...she must have heard it was 'cheap' from someone else). I don't think it looks cheap...although it is (not always though) a lot cheaper. And plus, they last forever (and you don't have to worry about them wilting before the wedding). I also have allergies. Here are some images of the bouquet I made. Does it look cheap or does it look nice for a fall wedding? I'm having this argument with my mom and I need some ideas. Thanks all!

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b249/lalena2248/flower_close1small.jpg

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b249/lalena2248/flower_close3sidesmall.jpg

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b249/lalena2248/flower_close2sidesmall.jpg

Answer 1

I'm going with silk myself through this website. I had to verify with the lady that they really are silk because they look so good.

http://flowerpackages.com/index.cgi

And I don't think that silk is cheap, just an alternative. It's your wedding, do what you want.

Answer 2

I think the silk bouquets you did are nice, and I disagree with the comment about "lose the fruit". This adds interest and texture, something that people don't usually see in blooms.

It's your wedding, after all, so do what you feel is best, of course.

Since you asked, I think you should so silk on the centerpieces and decor, use real flowers for the bouquets and groom's flowers as well. It is easy to tell silk and real flowers apart when they are in a bouquet, but less so when they are arranged. If you have allergies, use a floral arrangement that will not bother you, or just take a pill/medication before the ceremony so that it won't bother you.

Answer 3

I think the bouqet looks great! While real flowers are beautiful too, it would be nice to use the silk flowers because they will be able to last forever. I made my own bouqet for my wedding as well. My colors (an August) wedding were purple and yellow. It seems tacky to some, but I used silk sunflowers and other small yellow flowers along with some purple wildflowers. I made bouquets for the bridal party as well, so not only I could have some memento from a great day, but the girls in the bridal party could too. And if you have allergies as well, it is better to use something that will not cause a flare up on your special day. Congrats! And good luck.

Answer 4

Your bouquets are GORGEOUS! (I would wrap thee stems in pretty ribbon, as a suggestion)

I did silks in my October wedding. We got engaged on the 4th of July and had a mid-October wedding. In looking back, I wish that I would have let someone else do the bouquets (either silk or fresh) just because I was on such a time crunch. I could have used that time for other things and been just as happy with the outcome. If you've got the time girl, do it.

If you have tons of other things that you want to make (special touches that convey who you and the groom are), I'd farm it out.

Also, the idea of mixing it up is a good one. We used silks in the ceremony and had fresh for the reception. We've been married a year and a half and people still mention our wedding when a wedding is brought up. We did everything for $1,800. Pick where your money and time will make the most impact. Shoot me an email if you have some specific things you need help with.

Good luck & congratuations!

Answer 5

I think that the silk ones look beautiful! You did a fantastic job! You have to think about it a couple different ways. Do you want to keep the flowers for longer then a week after the wedding? I wish that I had done silk because it would have last forever.

I think the silk is really nice and would look really good!

Answer 6

i think you should mix it up a little
have some real flowers and some silk ones that way no one can say anything bad about the flowers remember hun this is your wedding and what ever you and the hubbie to be thinks is best then go with that you only need to keep yourself and your soon to be hubbie happy

for my wedding i had a small wedding with 1 vase of roses a wedding cake and also dinner for the people who came but then again we got married at are home with my mom are 4 kids and the preacher and his wife so not to many to worry about lol
good luck best wishes on your marrage

Answer 7

I think silk flowers are just fine, especially if you have allergies. As long as you are the one getting married I would tell your mom to be grateful that you are trying to keep the cost of the wedding down. The pictures look lovely and from a distance most wouldn't even know they weren't real.

Answer 8

You should definately go with what you want, not your mom! This is your wedding, she had a chance for hers. I'm getting married this weekend, and we just silk for all the flower arrangements for the reception, all the flower table centerpieces. Then we used real for my bouquet and the bridesmaids bouquets. Other than those, everything is silk.. and I think mine look great, and I'm picky! You should choose withever you are happiest with!

Answer 9

I think your bouquets are beautiful. Nobody looks that closely at the bouquets anyway, they are all looking at YOU! I made silk flowers for my bridesmaids, but had real flowers for my bouquet, but since you have allergies, just get use silk. You don't want to be sneezing during your vows.

Take care.

Answer 10

I love your flowers. They are beautiful. I used real flowers at my wedding and I so wished I would have used silk. My flowers are horrible looking now and with silk they are beautiful forever. My freind was married June 3rd and used silk flowers. People couldn't tell and your flowers look 10 times better than hers. Good luck and best wishes!