2006-07-24 06:26:10 · 23 answers · asked by Rockerfreddy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not change yourself for anybody but you. If you want to make positive life changes, that is great, but do it for the right reasons. If he rejects you because of your body, you don't need him anyway.
2006-07-24 06:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by drumrchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a diet. regardless of your relationship with the guy you'll never be happy, or healthy while fat.
It's hard but a sure way to have serious health problems unless you lose weight not to mention social.
Eat several selections of fruit, fruit drinks, and nuts a week. and walk at least a mile a day if possible. you'll lose weight.
Drink a lot of water, eat only wheat bread, very few potaotes, or other starchy foods, use little or no cooking oils and low fat veggie when u do. bake your meats. Stay away from soft drinks and fast foods as they are your main enemy.
At work, school or shopping (anywhere ) do not eat any foods which say corn syrup or high futorse corn syrup as this is one of the main ingredents in most all cookies, soft drinks, candies, and making people fat. Surgar is better for you than corn syrup and less fasttening. People used to eat sweets such as candies and drinks, pies, sweet tea, cakes, but there was little effect until sugar was replaced by corn syrup. Doctors used to recommend corn syrup for sickly babies or under weight children because it would put weight on them.
You can check out the history of todays fat people it started with corn syrup and fast foods.
After losing weight and looking great you too can tell him to kiss your what ever and your're too dam good looking for him.:):)
2006-07-24 06:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is an easy question to answer. You should move on...
here is the reason why. This person is obviously very shallow and looks at only a womans outside and not her heart and inner self. He is only wanted to have a "hot girl" so that he himself will look good at the same time. You have some options here: 1) move on and stay the way you are. 2) move on but diet and maintain a healthy lifestyle. 3) find out just how much is he wanting you and maybe if you two worked some things out, he may tell you he will stick around and help you with your diet, and new healthy lifestyle (if he truly loves you then this is what he will do) 4) diet and exercise to maintain that healthy lifestyle and then hit him up again someday and show him what he is missing. You have to do things for you. I hear so many people on here wondering about things when in actuality they have many awswers right under their noses. Seek yourself out and you will be happy with your outcome.
2006-07-24 06:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if this were me in this situation, I would be hurt. His reasoning for not liking you is shallow and hurtful. Based on his reasoning, I would move on. This guy doesnt seem to understand that there is more to a person than an exterior. If you are happy with the way you look then don't change a thing about yourself. One day, when the time is right, you will meet a guy who sees the inner you and he will be able to appreciate you for all that you are. This was one guy out of millions! There will be guys that reject you and there will be guys that you reject... its part of dating. I would suggest that if you are happy with the way you look then stay exactly as you are. God loves you just the way you are. Remember that He created you so you are a treasure in His eyes! Good luck and God Bless.
2006-07-24 06:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by Girl 4 God 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whats best for you...if you find yourself liking a certain type and you won't settle for less, and they don't feel the same about you because your fat then yes you need to consider changing that and going on a diet but never change to the point that your going to change who you really are, unfortunately some become what others want them to be...they get what they want because of it but it doesn't last because its to difficult to live day in and day out as someone your not 100% comfortable with, but you need to understand some guys are shallow...consider those who see you for who you are not for what you look like..good luck.
2006-07-24 06:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one person you have to worry about making happy is YOU. If this boy does not like you, then another one will.
It does not matter if he thinks you are fat. All that matters is how YOU feel about yourself. if you think you will be healthier if you were thinner, start a program of diet and exercise after talking to your doctor.
But be yourself. the only people worth being with are the ones who like you how you are!
Good luck.
2006-07-24 06:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you're fat, then go on a diet. But do a PROPER diet, don't stop eating or anything. Contact someone to find out which diet would be best for you. Don't change yourself for this one guy, unless you think he's your soulmate or something :)
Good Luck Darling!
2006-07-24 06:30:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw him!!!
If YOU feel unhappy with yourself, then start watching what you eat and exercise a little. Don't do it for him though. I hate skinny guys, the older you get the more you'll realize that real men like meat on the bones. Hang in there, I'm sure you have an amazing personality.
I'm 23 in case you're wondering
2006-07-24 06:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by jso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't like you because of that, then he is clearly too shallow for you. The single most important thing in a relationship is accepting one another for the people that you both truly are inside, despite physical appearances, and clearly this guy can't give you that. I'm sorry, but you are going to have to find a nice guy who accepts you for you.
2006-07-24 06:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't about the boy. It's about you. Are you happy the
way you are? If so, then you have the right to stay in what-
ever shape you wish.
I will say that if you lost weight, it would make you healthier,
but it's not my job to pass judgment on you. Only you can
decide if you want to lose weight.
This boy is shallow if he can't see you for the person you are
and not just your weight.
2006-07-24 06:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by jrhughes3068 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez....what kind of answers are some of those......okay, look, are you comfortable the way you are? then stay the way you are...... if you don't like being "fat", then go on a diet and exercise routine, it is up to you, and you must do it for yourself, not for some guy
2006-07-24 06:32:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋