...that way. she said she loves me but that she prefers to do things this way or with me giving her oral sex. is this acceptable? what do you women think?
2006-07-24 06:15:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, HERE GOES. I'M SURE I'LL GET SOME POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE RESPONSES TO THIS ANSWER. IF THE SEX IS BACKED UP WITH LOVE, PASSION, AND DESIRE TO PLEASE YOUR PARTNER THAN SIZE SHOULDN'T MATTER TO EITHER OF YOU. SOME GUYS THAT ARE WELL ENDOWED SEEM TO THINK THAT'S ALL THEY NEED AND DON'T BOTHER TO EXPLORE OTHER WAYS TO GIVE OR SHOW THEIR DESIRE TO THEIR PARTNER. BE HAPPY WITH WHAT YOU HAVE AND EXPAND YOUR KNOWLEDGE. LEAVE HER. SHE'LL LEAVE YOU, OR FOOL AROUND ON YOU, WHEN THE DILDO DOESN'T DO IT FOR HER ANYMORE
2006-07-24 06:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by makamaepohaku 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
To be honest it all depends on what you feel. How did it make you feel when she asked you to do this? Then how did you feel when she put the "strap on" on you? And then how did you feel while you were wearing it and performing with her? These are questions that you must ask yourself. I would never laugh at you or make fun of you as I am not that type of person.....but I will admit that I would NEVER do that to a person. That was not very nice of your g/f to do to you. I mean if you are alright with it, then by all means carry on....but if for one second it made you feel worthless, insecure, invaluable then you first need to tell her that you WILL NOT put that on you again, and you will not tolerate her "belittle" you again. You two will need to work something out. And here is something to think about...has she been with that many men or is she a canyon down there to not be able to feel you. This just may not be your problem it may be her...think about it. I would move on tho and find a woman who loves you for YOU.
2006-07-24 13:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this is right of her. It only means she doesn't love you. She is just using you like a sex toy. If someone says she loves you then she must love everypart of you. Physically and mentally. And if your penis does not give her pleasure how can she love you. Can you love her if she was not satifying you completly? No Way!!! I mean how bad can your penis be? You can give her oral and stimulate her clit. The average penis size is 6 inches, your should be around there right? How big/small is your penis. I think if it is under 4 inch then it is small but other then that i think it is fine.
2006-07-24 13:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by Joe H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This chick is a *****. I'm sorry, but any girl who cannot accept the person she loves for who he is is a jerk. I feel sorry for you to be in such a one way relationship and I suggest that you talk to her about it. If things don't change, I would even go so far as to dump her; what's the point of being with somebody who can't even accept you for who you are?
2006-07-24 13:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That woman is weird!
Find another. I can assure you it's not the size, but what you do that makes miracles. If she is so big without being able to control her muscles , maybe SHE needs some kind of treatment . Leave that to someone else and move on!
2006-07-24 13:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by ranietsd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you love her enough to continue being humiliated as you must already feel? she is being selfish, if she truly loved you she would of told you how she felt and the two of you decide on a way to fix the problem that is not right what she is doing to you i truthfully wished i could tell you how to deal with this situation but it's all up to you, between you and me it's not worth it Best of luck and hang in there buddy
2006-07-24 13:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by playful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i guess if you need help in the holding your pants up department, i guess a strapon is o.k.at least she is sleeping with you and not going out looking for someone who has a bigger
wang.if your oral is pleasing her, continue doing what your doing.
good luck
2006-07-24 13:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by retrac_enyaw03 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is flat out disrespectful. even if you are small she should still be able to enjoy, put your hips into.
OR
You should get rid of her she's probably so stretched out she can't feel any thing.
2006-07-24 13:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by buddysgirl24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHA… oh man that is classic. I feel sorry for you. I really do. She has now just about 100% emasculated you. What's next? She likes it doggy style but only when she's got you on all fours?
2006-07-24 13:21:42 · answer #9 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your chick is f*cked up if she wanted a strap on she should have just used a di!do all by herself. she should accept you for you. find someone else
2006-07-24 13:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋