His x-wife was molested and she sent herself blk roses and the police traced it back to her. We feel she's mad at him over child support and having his daughter say these things. The girl is 16 heard she is now cutting herself and going to counseling.Also a month ago My daughter accused him of messing with my grand children once we cut off her money supply possible these are connected.
2006-07-24 06:14:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Both girls are spoiled brats and live 4 hours away none of them live with us. There problem is anger daddy cut of the free money flow. there seeking revenge and the 16 yr olds mother is the wacked out one that stalked herself with black roses. I think after the first accusation was made the x-wife was contacted thrus she jumped on the band wagon come on two accusations a month apart and the first ones fizzled out.
2006-07-25 03:13:12 · update #1
Not many children would lie about this. If she is in counseling and is cutting, then you should take into very serious consideration that she is telling the truth.
If your daughter is alleging the same thing....
That's 2 times... too many
2006-07-24 06:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the daughter (16yr old) is still a virgin, there are tests than can be done by a gyno to find out if there was anything to the claim. You daughter may just be using that as an excuse (especially if she had prior knowledge to the claims of the ex). Not sure how old the g-kids are, but they could also be tested...(basically the dr. will check to see if there is any scarring or if the hymen is broken. If it comes back positive, RUN....if not, they are just making up viscious stories....but...if the 16 yr old has had any type of sexual penetration from a boyfriend, there won't be any way to tell. The best bet is to have the younger g-kids tested (assuming they are younger).
2006-07-24 06:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm....I'd take the accusations seriously. Get up the nerve and talk to the ex and his daughter. The fact that she's cutting is a sign that she could've experienced something traumatic. Don't talk to the ex and daughter together. You want to find out how similar the stories are. Explain to them that you are concerned for the welfare of the grandkids...I suspect that they don't want anyone to go through being molested. Then talk to your daughter and ask her what happened. Are there similarities in all three stories? If so, your partner is scum, no matter how he denies it. Report him to the authorities so he can't do it to anyone else. If he is a child molester, he doesn't deserve mercy.
2006-07-24 06:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by darthbouncy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard thing to think about, whether the kids are lying, just to get back for not getting what they want or if it's true. Well who do you trust? I say that it's an act and tell the kids that they need proof, and that you'll take then in for testing, just to give them a scare and see how things go after that. I would go with your gut feeling and try and get some evidence.
2006-07-24 06:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by HotTherapist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's cutting herself, it's serious. call the police and encourage them to set up cameras in your house so you can confront him on tape. (don't set up the cameras on your own -- it will be inadmissable in court, and might even get you in legal trouble.) but, if you're asking here, then you probably don't believe her, or you just don't want to cause him harm. if the latter is true, you're almost as bad as he is, and you should really consider some therapy (with a medical doctor, not a psychologist.) either way, cutting off your daughter will lead to desperation on her part. possible actions on her behalf: prostitution, i.v. drugs, armed robbery, suicide, etc. go get her, talk to her, and tell her you believe her. if she's lying, you'll know (unless you really, REALLY suck at being a mom).
2006-07-24 06:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by S B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell u how to find out if he messed with ur grandchildren. take them to the doctor they can tell if they been missed with and how long ago it was done. Then take it from there. If u dont do nuttin about it and u believe him them u need help and ur *** bet by ur daughter.
2006-07-24 07:36:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm its a hard one but to be safe id leave him expecally if you want to have another child what happens when it happens to your own child
2006-07-24 09:20:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would report it to child services. Let them investigate.
2006-07-24 06:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by raven s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was do some snooping if it is true kill him!(not trying to be funny)
If it is not punish your daughter!
2006-07-24 06:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by Honeymist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weird, get a new life with out this weirdo in it
2006-07-24 06:21:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋