I've fallen for a guy for a whole year.I liked him alot n i thought he loves me 2.We had our farewell dinner last 2 weeks.I received a msg saying that its from him n it says that he loves me.It turns out it was not from him.It hurts.I've been suffering 4 quite sometime guessing whether he loves me or not,til i got tired.My exams r due 2 next month n i haven't finished revision.So, i've decided to end my 1-year ordeal,i wanna focus on my studies.I feel guity coz my parents hv high hopes on me.I've wrote him a letter telling how i feel.The result was,he read it openly in his class n ppl got 2 know.He said that he had no feelings 4 me.He doesn't know how 2 reply.He chose not 2.The thing is that before writng this letter,i'm 100% sure he likes me coz of things he does,like treating me different from other girls n stuff.I even overheard a conversation of him n his friend saying that he loves me.I dunno how 2 face him n my friends.I'm confused n hurt. Pls help me out here...I need help......
2006-07-24 06:11:51 · 12 answers · asked by lost 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well all you need to understand is that, this guy is not worth loving... A person who cant understand your feelings, make jokes out of your efforts and says openly that he have no feelings for you, then how can that person understand you... Just try and focus on your studies as its more imp right now... So just give yourself sometime, push that guy out of your mind and then analys a fer things, that do you really wanna stay for a guy who doesn't even understands you... Try this and make your own conclusions... Remember LOVE YOURSELF AND PEOPLE WILL LOVE YOU...
2006-07-24 08:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by DrAgOn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were right, your parents have high hopes for you. You need to drop him and focus on your exams. At least for right now, until they are done. I know its hard to do but you need to put him out of your mind. Then when you've aced your exams you can put your efforts into finding someone who isn't a complete jack ***. This guy is way to immature for you. Anyone who reads a private letter to their class is like, what... 8 years old? Ditch this jerk-off and find someone deserved of you. You should be hurt and embarrassed, that's normal. But turn yourself into something more than a victim of this loser. Use this to make yourself stronger, and to have a better screening process when choosing your future mate. Good luck.
2006-07-24 06:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... that's an interesting situation you have there. I suppose you should forgive him for reading that letter out loud, and to be honest, there could have been a thousand good reasons why he did that. On the other hand, it was pretty insensitive and rude of him for not replying and letting the whole world know about your letter. Perhaps you should consider talking to him alone where nobody can interfere?
2006-07-24 06:19:22 · answer #3 · answered by bOoGaLoOs!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him! Any man who lets who let an entire class read a personal letter from you means he doesnt have an ounce of respect for you. Sounds like you have no respect for youself either otherwise you wouldnt be obsessed with someone like this. Quit talking to this guy plain and simple. Hes a loser. Trust me, in 2 years you will be laughing about this.
2006-07-24 06:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by chlobug26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just live and learn darlin. If you have to wonder if someone loves you then there is a 99% chance that they don't. You sound like a loving smart girl, take your talents and love to someone who will leave no doubt in their mind about you and their feelings for you. You are just starting out so you have plenty of time and and other guys that will wait on you hand and foot. Let this guy wonder why he missed out on someone special like you.........
Eric
2006-07-24 06:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by Shyguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch.
First of all, refocus on your studies. An education will usually last longer than a boyfriend.
Then find him in the hallway at school, and slap the bejesus out of him and cuss him out in every language you know and tell him that he was lousy in bed.
And move on. Do not pass go, do not collect 200.00, he's a prick.
2006-07-24 06:18:33 · answer #6 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that he has cleared things up and you don't have a relationship with this guy, its time you focused on your studies and put the past in the past...learn from what you experienced in this situation and try not to repeat this confusing relationship you thought you were in again..good luck
2006-07-24 06:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to me very carefully girl . . . . .love ends wen u want it to. . . it starts wen u want it to. . .but theres one rule. . . .never run after it.the more u try to chase it ,the more it will go away from you.you love him and u dont wanna loose on to him. . . then first of all become his good friend . . it all starts from here.trust me on that one.dont push thing babes. . . the base of love is friendship.so first gather ur broken pieces,put them all together n make a new beginning.not askin u to forget him. . .just go slow.and just one thing beleive that u will be together. . and first love urself. .then others will reciprocate.so no more tears. .get up and take charge.god bless ya
2006-07-24 06:24:39 · answer #8 · answered by hellsangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes life doesn't make sense and even hurts. but in time it heals all wounds. you wont ever stop thinking or loving this guy you just need to be happy with yourself and find someone that will be happy with you. unfortunately it is a cruel part of life, it is just learning and trying to believe in love.
2006-07-24 06:40:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and focus on your studies. That will prepare you for life. You the whole rest of your life to deal with relationships.
2006-07-24 06:17:06 · answer #10 · answered by brian_29_chicago 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋