Ew, I had that problem years ago. He'd kiss me and I'd be covered in saliva. There's a good way. Don't tell him what he's doing wrong. Tell him nicely what turns you on. "I love it when you kiss me this way..."
2006-07-24 06:07:31
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answered by SurferRose 4
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oh come on...... ***** all those girls who advise you to dump him - teaching him how to kiss is so much easier than putting an end to what you have... i mean i suppose that you must like him at least a little if you're already dating him, right ?
Believe me, training a guy into kissing you the way you like it is easy like 1-2-3 ! i've done it many times already. Here's what you'll do:
1) let him kiss you. Be patient for 5 seconds, then slowly move backwards, ending the kiss
2) smile at him, give him a little kiss on the lips
3) tell him jokingly to take it slower, or else he'll eat you up (just don't say it as an offense, say it as gentle as you can. don't forget to smile and look into his eyes)
4) kiss him again. Every time he starts "swallowing" you again, move away and take a break. Smile and remind him to take it easier. Tell him you like to kiss more gently.
5) one more thing - don't wait for results in 5 minutes ! getting rid of a bad habit is not that easy, but he'll come around, believe me ! He'll understand that he can only kiss you if he does it your way.
6) yeah, i forgot to tell you - if after three or four therapy sessions like the one i just described above, he still doesn't emprove, i mean not at all - dump him. It means he doesn't care about what you want or like, and he's not worth the effort.
2006-07-24 13:22:48
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answered by n_u_s_i_k 2
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Oh no...run! Seriously! Ever see the Sex and the City episode where Charlotte dates the bad kisser? She tries to teach him but he still practically gnaws her face off. If he's that bad a kisser, just imagine what else he's bad at.
2006-07-24 13:07:34
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answered by SuperJenn 4
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I don't understand your statement. He said it's time you guys started making out? Try rephrasing your questions with better grammar.
If I'm understanding this correctly, your boyfriend is a terrible kisser. You have two choices. One: Classify him as boyfriend-in-training and teach him. Or two: Classify him under "dweeb" and get rid of him.
2006-07-24 13:10:22
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answered by Anonymous
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Oh my! thats a terrible condition,really it is,because kissing should be enjoyed and moreover it draws a couple closer.I was once in that fix,so i understand with u,In my case i couldn't teach him,cos he was domineering............so i had to just let d relationship fade off.
It would be fine if he accepts for u to teach him,it would work,and getting him to watch a video should also be a plus.
Remember to teach with love!
Goodluck.
2006-07-24 13:24:50
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answered by exhalequietly 1
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Be honest with your bf and tell him that he needs to improve in the kissing department. Let him know to slow down and feel his body vibrations, then go with the flow,
2006-07-24 13:14:47
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answered by Latinamom 2
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There's a fun one. How to tell your guy to do something different without bouncing all over his ego.
grab his head in both hands and tell him that you like the way he kisses, but that you'd like him to try X, then hold his head still and tell him not to move, that he's about to be kissed.
Kiss him the way you like, then pull back, and say, now kiss me like that.
Repeat till he gets it right.
2006-07-24 13:10:37
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answered by cloaked30m 3
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You controll the kiss, take over and teach him how you likeit, if you have to pin him down to teach him.
2006-07-24 13:09:24
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answered by buddysgirl24 2
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pull back and teach him the right way
2006-07-24 13:06:36
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answered by buzy_bee_21 4
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get him to watch a video
2006-07-24 13:08:03
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answered by sky 2
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