I have had an abortion, he continued to live wit his ex for 2 years for financial reasons, and I left him for another man because I couldnt handle him going home to her every night. He called me so many names for leaving him. We have been trying to work it out...but I just don NOT want to have sex anymore.....what do i do??? I am just so traumatized i dont want anyone to touch me, but he wants to be just as crazy as we were when we 1st met...
2006-07-24 05:58:44 · 5 answers · asked by gigerninfo 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
everyone wants that spark and magic they had when they first met but its just not there as far as you not wanting to have sex abortions are tramatic back in your mind mabe you are guilty you had one or worried about getting pregnant again. who is to say your b/f will ever leave this girl for good and have a true loving relationship wirh you in the end
2006-07-24 06:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by oceanlady580 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've made the right choice. Wait for a man that is worth what you have to offer. You should seek the relationship and then the sex will happen, not the other way around. Waiting for marriage is the best way to do that.
2006-07-24 06:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as far as i imagine that is due 2 that u truly loved him (i wish) and now u have broke up so even as having oral u might want to gather each and every of the previous thoughts (the solid ones) which makes u emotional u can circumvent it by purely relaxing your options and wondering about how 2 please him or provide him better excitement that he cant locate everywhere else if u imagine like that u will purely b in contact about the Oral and ought to circumvent dat shameful difficulty purely administration your options and loosen up {best of success} i m no longer particular yet i imagine it is the precise reason it ought to b staggering if u wait 4 others solutions 2 yet i imagine it ought to b correct :)
2016-10-15 03:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by faulkenberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im having about the same problem girl my sex drive is down also and my man is hating it he lives w/ me though but two of my girlfriends are pregnant and it scares me i am not ready for kids wish i could help you and i wish you the best of luck girly.....
2006-07-24 06:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life happens babe, and you pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and don't make the same mistakes.
Good Luck
2006-07-24 06:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋