Okay I've been friends with this guy, for a awhile now, we spend solitary time together but don't really know if he likes me, but I like him so How do I find out if he does too, do I just ask him? but that would bo too awkward!!!So what do I do?
2006-07-24 05:57:54 · 30 answers · asked by sexy_Biatch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u guys have been friends i would go up to him and say" look i need to talk to you about something and it's really important to me. i really like you as more than a friend and if you feel the same way mabye we could work something out and if you don't i would really like it if we could continue being friends," and then let him go, if he likes you back congrats and i hope it works. if not be friends at least you'll have that much right,? i liked one of my guy friends and ii took a chance and told him. it worked for awhile but ended bad cuz we were too diff. but now were finally friends and it rocks so theres always a silver lining. good luck. lemme know what happens *hug* l8r
2006-07-24 06:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably both of you are in the scritctly freinds zone...Best thing to do in my opinion is to get in to his mind & ask him questions on his preferences when it comes to relationships..since you guys are friends he would not feel anything fishy..once you got your answers, run a screen of yourself agaist his 'wonder women' in mind..if you fit the bill or at least close to it then you should know what to do..no, dont go & ASK HIM OUT..but show his that you got what it takes to be in a relationship with him, the moment u ask him out & in case he rejects you it might not be healthy for your friendship to move on..it would always be awkward & u will regret it...hopefully he will make the move soon, all the best !
2006-07-24 06:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by Dave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally spending time together can eventually fester attraction, whether or not the feeling is mutual is almost always apparent unless the person(s) in question is in a realtionship, If this isn't the case, Speak-up and let him know how you feel. If you know he doesn't normally date someone like you - Appearance wise, don't upset yourself; it may be why he hasn't initiated something more himself.
2006-07-24 06:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by Love Doctor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to really find out is to tell him. When you're with him, you go to him and say stuff like "I didn't wanna tell ya, because Im afraid it may damage our friendship, and I really dnt wanna do that, but I gotta be honest with ya, ..... I think I may like you more then friendship..." stuff like that... you pick a day to tell him. You gotta tell him that day. You think "it's now or never". I do it and it always work. Dont ask him if he likes you!!! Just see how he reacts. Anyway, it will be a relief to tell him, believe me, that moment may be bad, but then you'll feel much better. That way you'll know if you're wasting youre love with him. Good luck ;)
2006-07-24 06:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look,if you were spending time as a friends,I think that you should just be a friedns.But if you really like him,just try to get his attention,be close to him.Than,after a while you just tell him this:"can you amagine us together?".you will see his reaction,and if it's good you just tell him that you like him.It's not easy,but for love you just gotta do everything.
2006-07-24 06:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by Voda Voda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him or use an example describing the both of you, describe your "fake" self so it sounds like you and ask him how he would feel going out with a girl like that. If it works, your in yay team. If it fails, time to regroup. Good luck!
GO FOR IT GIRL!!!!
YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!
2006-07-24 06:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by Tony B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have do a 13 day methord firt3 day make freindship next 4 days make it strong 3 give him some sensenation of lovefornext 3 day 2 give him yr top most pleaure last tell hi use it this worked for me
2006-07-24 06:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should appraoch him the next time you two have solitary time.Start off like this."(what ever his name is,i've been thinkin' bout somethin for a while now.You know we been hangin for a while right?I gotta tell you that I like you and I wanted to know if you have any feelings for me."The longer you wait to tell him you like him,then it'll be a bigger chance for him to search for a girl that he knows he's intersted in.
2006-07-24 06:08:25 · answer #8 · answered by Eugene the "Slim Thug" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is ask him to dinner....let him know you care.... make sure its a nice restaurant...after you order your food, engage in a light conversation. lead up to a more personal conversation, ask him what his parents are like, you know stuff like that. after you get finished eating and leave the restaurant take a walk around town, then when you get the felling that the mood is right, ask him on another date, tell him you had fun and would love to do it again....when he walks you to your door, lightly peck him on the cheek and see what he does, if he likes it kiss him more passionately.good luck!
2006-07-24 06:08:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, "hypothectically" what his idea of a really romantic date would be.
If he looks at you while answering, it might mean he likes you. If he is looking off into the distance while imagining his answer, he is imagining someone other than you.
Just a thought.....
2006-07-24 06:01:28 · answer #10 · answered by Love2Sew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋