I am 28 years old i have a 7 year old son that i love with all my heart. i had 3 miscarriage's before i had my son and was told that i would never be able to have anymore children so after 5 years of fertility treatment i fell pregnant to my surprise and was over joyed the pregnacy went fine and was frilled when i gave birth to a 7lb 40z baby boy. as the weeks went on i started to notice that he was not well and after going to the doctors and them saying that he was fine i could finally start to enjoy him but it was not long lived just 2 weeks later i woke up to find that he had died in the night. they could find nothing wrong with him and put it down to cot death and now i have had to have my tube's removed. my heart broke and life will never be the same again. so when i read these stories of people that can't handle they naughty children and don't know if there can carry on there should think there self's lucky. love them and they will love you back.
2006-07-24 05:46:36 · 17 answers · asked by jacko 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
that is really sad and I am sorry for your loss but this is not a question it is a judgement on others.
2006-07-24 05:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
My heart goes out to you. I cannot imagine loosing a child. I had 3 healthy children and am now I am raising 2 grandchildren. the youngest will be 2 next month but was born 2 1/2 months early. She has a host of medical problems and some days go better than others but my husband and I am grateful every day that we have her in our lives.
I wish I could say something to make you feel better but I know there is nothing to say. I will pray for you. And I am so sorry for all you have been through.
2006-07-24 12:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by nana4dakids 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am soooo sorry for your loss. I lost a baby to an ep 1 1/2 years ago and I still feel so empty. You really have no clue about how it actually feels to have your heart broken until you lose a child. Keep taking joy in your 7 year old and God bless!
2006-07-24 12:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by Suzanne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very sad!! I am soo sorry for the years of heartache and loss that you have experienced!! After you are done with the mourning process of your child and after you are healed (although I realize you will never be completely healed) you should look into adoption! There are many kids out there with parents that dont want them! You sould like a loving, caring parent who could really bring joy to a foster child, or unborn baby whos mother doesnt want them!
2006-07-24 12:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a lot of Tragedy in your life,my heart bleeds for you.I just cant imagine losing a child,its usually people who love children who are unlucky. I don't want to upset you,but in time would you not consider fostering children?I feel sure you would love a fostered child and there are a lot of ill treated little children out there, who would benefit from the love you could give them. Of course they would Never replace your lost children but it may help you.
2006-07-24 13:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by ladybee5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry this has happened to you.i do know your pain ilost a daughter too .her death was different. she was very premature and had little to no chance. she died 8 minutes after birth . i never saw. her. it bugs me too.i have a healthy 3 year old now and have had 2 more miscarriages. enjoy the son you have and maybe God will bles your life with another child thats what i hoping for. good luck and God bless you
2006-07-24 12:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just read an answer that you wrote and you said that you just lost a newborn niece. You didn't mention your son - so which is it? Also, 4 days ago you were asking if you were prgenant. How can that happen without your tubes?
If your story is true, I'm sorry to hurt you with these questions but it just doesn't add up for me.
2006-07-24 12:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by AlongthePemi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iam so sorry for your loss. Parents with children need to realize that children are a blessing from god. I have a 10 month old baby boy and he is my world and I dont know what I would do if something were to happen to him. It kills me to see these parents abusing theri children or these parents that dont want babies so when they get pregnant they abort them or they just throw them away like they were yesterday's trash.
2006-07-24 12:50:48 · answer #8 · answered by catherine b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel i just lost my son to sids not to long ago and have a beautiful little girl that i love with all my heart. unlike you i am lucky that i will be able to have another child. i also know how some women feel about getting frustrated with their children too. my daughter drives me nuts sometimes but when she does i just take some time to cool down then i talk to her and all is better.
2006-07-28 12:06:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry about your little boy . you dont forget him every min of each day you think of him as i do my baby daughter. But its hard but remember i have my baby daughter with me always in my heart and althought i dont seen her she is beside me always.just gave all your love to the little boy you have a hug and kiss does wonders from someone who loves you too.He misses his brother too as he was the big brother here and looking forward to having a play mate sounds like you both need each other good luck in the future and someday you will see you wee son again as he a angel in heaven xx
2006-07-25 08:34:05 · answer #10 · answered by kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss, or losses shall I say. It hurt me to read your story, and I am crying now... There are no words I could tell to make you feel better... have you looked into adoption?
I hope you can find happiness...
2006-07-25 06:45:27 · answer #11 · answered by ribena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋