I love him so much I just don't know what to do about this. I don't want to leave him but I am thinking about it. He has 4 kids and I have 2 and one on the way and its gonna be hard to leave him and his kids. I have done everything so he would stop talking to her but he still tells her he loves her and misses her. We even moved away from her but it is still gone on. So what should I do?
2006-07-24 05:41:41 · 11 answers · asked by love_me_not1982 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you have done more than you should have already .
So move on and stop getting hurt its not good for you or your children.. time heals all wounds you will be a better person without him and so will your children..
2006-07-24 05:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by poisondragon 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
very simple. if he loved u he would not cheat on you. if he did, he does not really love but is using you. get yourself a lawyer, apply with family court, get the court to get him to pay for upbrining of your child, get him early so he does not become a dead bit dad like a alot of men out there, forget him (this will be extremely hard) but why surfer for someone who really doesnt care about you or he would not treat u this way. unforntune a cheater will always be a cheater.
2006-07-24 12:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by lasalle_1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut your losses and move on. He obviously isn't into you anymore. You can't make a man change his ways.
I know it will hurt, but think about your kids. Do you want them to see their daddy cheating on you? I don't think it would be wise for them to be in such an environment.
2006-07-24 12:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hun...first off this goes to you MADEIT...you shouldnt even be answerin' this question because from your answer you dont even know anything about it so if you dont know then move on.....as for you hun....you owe it to your self and your kids to move on...not only is he cheating on you he is cheating on the whole family....trust me there are a lot of single parents out there and thier doin' just fine...you owe it to your kids to give them a loving and fully Trusting home and lifestyle even if it means being a single parent....love daisy
2006-07-24 13:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by crazy_daisy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be serious. Are you really going to base your decision on the results from anonymous Yahoo users? Are you really that worthless that you need another human being to survive? Are you really so pathetic that you need to be with someone who is so completely disconnected, selfish, and disrespectful?
Maybe it is true: only stupid people are breeding.
2006-07-24 12:55:57 · answer #5 · answered by PriMord-001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god, you love a cheater and made a baby out of wedlock.
Please judge yourself to stupid to be a parent again, get your tubes tied. Don't date and take care of the kids you have. Buy yourself some ting to take care of yourself.
2006-07-24 12:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go cuz he is not worth u fiten ova if he loved u really he would b with u so dont hold on to somethn that is not urs juz go find some1 who really is urs.
2006-07-24 12:48:37 · answer #7 · answered by dagirl10149 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should leave him! if he "loves you" then he should be willing to leave that stupid ex gf for you! i dont think you want another kid if he's just gonna leave you for that other BIT**!!!! unless you just wannt be a single mom with three kids...
2006-07-24 12:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes you, he will love you only and not have a relationship with his girlfriend...
2006-07-24 12:57:58 · answer #9 · answered by crimsonmoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to jerry springer or the maury show..
2006-07-24 12:46:50 · answer #10 · answered by landonsis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋