i think that this one guy is into me because he is always like flirting with me, playfully, not romanticly, really. he is like touching my leg and rubbing it and saying "you likey?" but he is in the in-crowd and he plays around like that all the time!
i like this guy too. but i dont know how to tell him that i like him, and how do you send signs?? plzzzz answer!!
thanx
-chrissy
2006-07-24 05:40:43 · 16 answers · asked by Christina G ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im going into 7th grade!
2006-07-24 05:54:40 · update #1
Uhm, ask him directly if he likes you or wants to go out-- or you could chance it and just tell him that YOU like him -- guys don't get "hints" or "signs" --- that is a woman thing-- guys have to be spoken to directly and plainly-- they don't understand the "nuances" of women--- that is why there are so many hacked off, angry, unhappy women-- they keep sending signals and thinking that if the guy really likes them, then they would KNOW the right thing to say or do, and they DON"T because they don't "get it" --- just ask-- save yourself a lot of headache and worry--
2006-07-24 05:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by statstaff1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was a freshman in high school I ended up becoming best friends with the most popular guy in my school. It just sort of happened. We were really cool towards each other and had a lot of respect for one another. After a while he wanted to date me and I refused becuase I was afraid it'd mess up the friendship. He insisted until I gave in. After that, he pretty much did everything he could to ignore me including cheating on me. Luckily I had other great friends who told me I was better than that. I broke up with him and was broken hearted, not because of what he did but because he ruined a beautiful friendship.
My point is this, don't fall for guys who flirt with you and also with everyone else. Usually, if they are in the "in crowd" they use it to their advantage. Don't stop being yourself just because he's not sure of what he wants. Be true to who you are and never stop the world for one confused person. Go on with your life and let him know you like him, but that your world does not revolve around his. Let him know you're totally cool with being his friend. Believe me, guys respect friendship more than most people think. Most of my best friends have turned out to be guys and I have a blast with them. The important thing is to be someone's friend before they become anything more.
To use an old cliche "BE YOURSELF." If he likes you he'll respect that. Play it aloof.
2006-07-24 05:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by sphinx28_2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uck, high school, has to be.
Just be aware that you can always get a guys attention, but is it going to be the kind of attention you are looking for and is it the guy you really want.
If you want to pop his eyes open, the next time he rubs your thigh, put your hand over his, push it down firmly, Say that you indeed 'likey', but can't he do any better than that.
You'll get his attention, but again, make certain that its the kind of attention you are looking for.
2006-07-24 05:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are obviously a child and I will tell you what I tell all the other children who ask about if someone likes someone and how to..... OPEN YOUR DAMN MOUTH! God gave you a mouth for a few reasons and talking is one of them. Talk to the guy and he will be amazed at your maturity and openness. If you dont, you are a coward, immature, and dont need to be in a relationship because you cant handle it. Sorry if this answer is abrasive but I'm giving it to you straight.
2006-07-24 05:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by alienorgy69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find out in depth whether he really does like you...if you cant then what the hell...lifes to shrt not to at least try to figure it out urself. Just get him alone, ask if his signs or just playfull or if they mean anything....if they are real you should tell him that you have REAL feelings for him 2..if they are playfull dont feel stupid just tell him hes leading you on and get the guts to say that you took them more than just playfull signs
2006-07-24 05:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by Andie K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up and ask him out while touching his arm, belt, or leg. Im a guy trust me, we like that ****. Plus if your attractive then he will most likely say yes. Just go ask, saves him the damn trouble!
2006-07-24 05:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by The J Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably already are without realizing it! Im sure he knows. Just flirt back, play with your hair when he talks, bit your lip lol. Omg im such a tart!
2006-07-24 05:47:34 · answer #7 · answered by Caterina24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply just dont mind his touching here and there.
-i think that he is trying to attract your attention but u r ignoring him.
-to show signs, start with small romantic jokes then with greeting cards, then with small touching here and there (like him), then with goodnight messages or sms, then love sms or cards........
-invite him to romantic places to talk or have a walk
-hold his hands when walking.
2006-07-24 05:48:35 · answer #8 · answered by serial kisser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well giving him head on your first date is usually a good start! We men love that. And please don't make excuses for not swallowing, OK? We men hate that! You may end up blowing the whole thing. Just blow...but dont blow it. Got that?
2006-07-24 05:45:15 · answer #9 · answered by Chandru M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u shouldnt tell him. hes a flirt and playboy all he want is to see u naked and screw u.so if u want that from him then go ahead but if u want a bf then u need to just continue your search.
2006-07-24 06:37:03 · answer #10 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋