2006-07-24 05:37:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Because they want the best for you. Criticism isn't always the best way to help you see things that need to change, but then moms aren't all gifted with the ability to say it "nicely" nor is that even always possible.
Just accept that criticism is part of how she shows her love and concern. She wants you to have a happy and good life.
However as a teen, you aren't always going to understand why she sees things so differently from you. She's got a lot more years and experience so she DOES know things you can't possibly know yet. That's why sometimes she'll say things you totally disagree with.
That doesn't mean she's always right, but it does mean her heart is in the right place and the odds are that MOST of the time, she does know exactly what she is saying is true.
2006-07-24 05:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lori A 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lack of hobby, no career,nothing to distract her like sex with daddy,or a broken pipe or interesting neighbourhood gossip
They said it is out of love for their child but most of the time
it about their reputation
2006-07-24 05:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by lucas l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They ahve been down the same road you are travelling and want to guide you into become a mature adult.
it's just that some of them don't know how to present the message properly.
2006-07-24 05:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naturally because they want you to improve your self in every field of life
2006-07-24 05:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by Ramesh M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because when they look at u they c u as a reflection of them, so they don't want to look bad, and they want u to improve on the things critisized, or they're insecure, or what they see in u is what they don't like about themselves.
2006-07-24 05:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they want the best...but sometimes it gets destructive. like when you push your body or a machine to the limit and it just can't anymore and you get sick or injured and (for the machine), it breaks down
2006-07-24 06:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by crimsonmoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is their way of dealing with their own unrealized dreams and realization that they are quickly becoming fat nobodys that will ever do anything.
2006-07-24 05:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by kafka2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'cause it's easier for them to point out the things they find wrong with they're children, then to work on they're own problems.
2006-07-24 05:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they learn from the quote "mother knows best". When they were teens, their mothers (our grandma) did the same.
2006-07-24 05:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by daydream♥believer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait, you'll be a parent one day and it will all make sense.
2006-07-24 05:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by michaelyoung_airforce 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋