Ex and I broke it off and he went back to home state on Saturday. We agreed to be friends but thsi wekeend I felt like I missed him so much because he was no longer there. I know the relationship would not have lasted because I did not care too much for his oldest daughter. I still love him, but I do I get over him. We agreed to be friends and keep in contact via email.
2006-07-24 05:10:42 · 16 answers · asked by Kenya 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You WILL continue to miss him for a period of time, maybe a month or two. If you did not care for his oldest daughter, probably there wouldn't have been a bright future for you...especially if the daughter was possessive of her dad. Staying friends is a good idea, but he will likely start sending fewer and fewer emails as time goes on. My best suggestion is to go out and meet someone else to fill that void.
2006-07-24 05:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by Marginality 2 · 8⤊ 0⤋
The truth will hurt. Your best friend is time. Time eventually helps most things not hurt so much, but it is a slow process. I would recommend being with your friends and family, and stay away from music. So many sad songs to make you feel worse. Do things for yourself and keep busy. Two years from now, when you find someone new to like and who likes you, you won't miss this boyfriend so much at all. Reach out to your friends and do things, have friends over, spend time at their houses, sleep over, etc. And don't jump back into a relationship. Learn from this one to start relationships slower. Don't get too emotionally involved until you see it is safe and won't get your feelings hurt so much. Do these things and learn this lesson, and you will be much happier in the future.
2006-07-24 12:19:58 · answer #2 · answered by Nothing left to give 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So go out with him, but whatever U do, try to be nice to his daughter and until U get closer 2 his daughter, don't U DARE marry him!!! I don't see much of my dad because of my step-mom, and it's the worst thing in the world to do to any one, no matter what their age, to come between a man and his offspring. So, try to get closer to his, daughter. If you email me and tell me more about her, I could probably help U better.
Oh, yeah and if all else fails, U could always go to Chip & Dales w/a couple of girlfreinds!
2006-07-24 12:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Irene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are sort of in the same boat here but I don't think there is any way you can really "just get over him". You just have to let time heal. Keep busy, go out with your friends and surround yourself with the people who truly love and care about you at this difficult time.
2006-07-24 12:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one in this whole world cares about your happiness as much as you do. If you aren't happy doing it, don't do it. Don't ever settle and for heaven's sake don't dwell on mistakes or regrets. If it were meant to be, you would not be at this point. Let him go. Wash your face and go do something fun that you have been wanting to do for sometime and have been putting it off!
Choose to be happy and you will be . . .
2006-07-24 12:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by lqirby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend more time on other things.
Keep yourself busy
Not only in work but going out with friends and all
There are many nice people around the world like you. Find one and share your thoughts will them. Sharing thoughts will calm you more
2006-07-24 12:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by CoolestnHotest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow very tricky but do u still have feelings for him if so then that creates a problem. to get over a man u need to focus on the stuff u like to do wether its arts and crafts, sowing, writting, drawing, reading etc. enjoy the stuff u like to do before u are tied down
2006-07-24 12:15:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you loved him so much, why did you let his daughter get in the way?!? Your relationship to him and your relationship to his daughter are two different things. When you love someone you tolerate everything. My man has 2 kids and I love them both as if they were mine. I have no problems at all with his daughter who is soon gonna be 12. It sounds to me like you didn't like his daughter at all, so how can you say you loved him?!? You sound like my stepdad! He told me and my brothers that he never loved us. He said that after we buried our mom when she died from cancer. He can't say he really loved my mom cause if he didn't love her kids then he didn't love her either. If you wanna be friends with him that's fine but really be honest with yourself. You didn't really love him. That's like me saying I love my man but can't stand his kids. I love my man and his kids and always will. Next time find a man with no kids cause it sounds like you wouldn't be a good stepmom anyway. When you truly love someone you accept them for everything they are and have. I am very happy with what I have with my man. You can definitely get over that guy since you didn't really love him anyway. Good luck!
2006-07-24 12:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by curious_boricua_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some times contact can be good but others bad, you will get over him time is the answer also get yourself busy doin somethin ya enjoy you dont have to get out and date to get over sometimes just puts ya in a bad spot, so just have fun enjoy your freedom and do things that make ya happy, and you will find time will heel,
2006-07-24 12:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no contact for a good amount of time would be the best start. you can't get over someone if you are talking to them and they are in your face reminding you of the lost love.
2006-07-24 12:13:55 · answer #10 · answered by missdeve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋