when he finds out about other guys ive been with. ive been with a lot of guys not sex but head. ive done it to most of the guys at my school coz i really like doing it. i havent done anything with my bf yet coz i like him heaps and dont want him to think im a ho like all the other guys but when he finds out what i've done b4 he will. how can i keep him? i really like him and dont want to lose him. i've never like a guy like this b4. and plz dont just call me a ****. im 16 btw and my bf is 18. I REALLY like him and dont know how I can stop him from seeing me as dirt when he finds this stuff out.
any help you have plz tell me.
2006-07-24 05:10:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know i've earned the title and im ok with that but i really wanna change it for him i like him heaps other guys were just for fun and i didnt care what they thought of me
2006-07-24 05:20:55 · update #1
well we've been out 3 times and just kissed. if he knows already he knows he should got head by now. he will def find out.
2006-07-24 05:26:40 · update #2
You can't keep him if he finds out what you're really like and decides you're not the kind of girl he wants. You made your bed now you have to lie in it.
2006-07-24 05:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change anything about it now. He's bound to find out from the sound of it and he will more than likely dump you. These are the prices you pay for doing what you did... over and over and over again. It sucks for you but now that is going to be your label for the rest of your high school life. And what makes you think he doesn't already know youur reputation? That may very well be the reason he's with you.
2006-07-24 05:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you this is what I'd do...
Babe there's something i need to tell you before you find out from someone else......I had a problem before with previous boyfriends that I'd have oral sex with them because I didn't want to lose my virginity yet (hoping your still a virgin) and some of those guys or even their friends may say something to you about it. As corny as it sounds I really like you and you are different, my feelings for you are different and you make me feel special......And I wanted to be honest with you in hopes that you just wouldn't dump me not knowing my reason... Good Luck!!!
2006-07-24 05:16:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the whole truth. It's too late to bother... If he realizes that you are not the type of girl for him, you'll have to understand him and accept it. But if he loves you or at least has very strong feelings about you.. He would "close" his eyes and accept all you've done before. Accent on the fact how much he is worth to you and that after all you are still a virgin. GOOD LUCK! :)))
2006-07-24 05:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by ChillyღAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if youre 16 and youve already gave half the guys at school head I would say he will dump you. Thats sleazy and you probably have a bad reputation at school. I cant believe he doesnt know already what youve been up too. Good luck!!
2006-07-24 05:16:12 · answer #5 · answered by crystal lee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to judge you because I can tell you really want to keep this guy so you just have to be honest and show him that you changed if he really loves you he will put this behind him and keep it the past and not bring it up that's the best advice I can give you best wishes and good luck!!
2006-07-24 06:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by Johnathon H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends a lot on him. How readily he is influenced by every day mores.
You have a problem, since you obviously never considered the possible outcome of your behavior. Now you pay the price.
I wouldn't hold it against you if I thought you really had what it takes (like, for me). But I would watch you closely....
2006-07-24 05:19:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is a really complacated situation.What you need to do is not what you've been doing in the past.You should wait until you get to know each other before starting a relationship.Then you'll see he might tell you before you tell him.If he doesn't tell you then just go tell him out of the blue.
2006-07-24 05:17:25 · answer #8 · answered by Lil'A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way that he's not going to find out.
If you've been giving head to THAT many boys at your school, well you've got to live with the reputaion that you've earned for yourself. All actions have consequences.
2006-07-24 05:17:40 · answer #9 · answered by JW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, you are 16 and have given head to all the guys in your school and u expect us NOT to call u a s*lut?? you need to be honest with him b/c he will find out eventually, and you need to stop giving head to every guy that has a dick!!!
2006-07-24 05:14:18 · answer #10 · answered by plastik_persephone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋