My girfriend,was visiting up here in Chicago,She's from Kansas,we had met,and we ended up dating.Its been going for two months,and it was strong.But,last night she gave me a call that devastated me.She said she wanted to end it before it gets to serious.She said i was falling for her too much,and she was falling for me too much.She said she didn't want either of us to be hurt when she left.But,the thing is,that hurt me more than her leaving.
2006-07-24 05:07:32 · 11 answers · asked by Ramon O 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Were 13 and 14 year olds just so u know.
2006-07-24 05:12:27 · update #1
she was scared she didn't like the fact of commitment
2006-07-24 05:11:06 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her up and make things right.Usually girls are very soft-hearted n tend to end a relationship b'coz she's a fraid of getting hurt n never get over it. Tell her that u'll be there for her no matter wat. Make her feel secure. She'' listen to u if she loves u that much. Tell her.I'm sure she didn't want 2 make that decision too. Think about it, she came all the way down to see u n unhappy things might have just happened on the way. May be she didn't want ur relationship 2 be like this. She misses u. Talk to her n make things right. Don't wait for either one of u to fill in the blanks. She'll listen Good luck .
2006-07-24 12:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have time to waste on someone that does not want you (whatever her reasons may really be). As hard as it may be, let her go. Life and love can be enough of a challenge, don't waste it on someone who just seems to make it harder.
Live, Love and Laugh A LOT!
2006-07-24 12:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by lqirby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe see if you two can go back to friends and start over and go from there. it seems to me that she has fear of commitment a do most people. do push things and let nature take its course if it was meant to be then it will.
2006-07-24 12:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by missdeve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen if she really loves you and you really love her than go after her and tell her how you feel if she doesn't take you back leave her go on with your life there are other women in the world that will love you the same way she did.
2006-07-24 12:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by tank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TWO MONTHS that's nothing you will be over it in two weeks.You cant lose something you never had.Good luck
2006-07-24 12:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by Sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that meant that she was married with 3 kids..... dont get upset.
2006-07-24 12:11:45 · answer #7 · answered by Watermelon Punch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks
damn women
2006-07-24 12:09:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for few month....u ll get relief....
2006-07-24 12:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS OKAY YOU WILL BE FINE..
2006-07-24 12:26:38 · answer #10 · answered by ROCKSTAR*CHICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋