i really like this guy and he likes me to but there is a 7 year difference i am 14 and he is 21 we have been talking for a while and he wants to start dating and meet my parents i told him he was crazy but then he tried to come over anyways i already met his parent and they think it ok that he wants to go out but my parents would kill him. what should i do?
2006-07-24 05:04:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you really got to think about the consequences about him meeting your parents...i mean, in reality, you and him dating or even having a relationship is considered rape because he is over 18 and you are under 18...i know everyone will probably say that you are too young for this sh*t and that you need to enjoy your youth and stuff and they are ...and plus if he really loves you, he will wait until you guys are actually legal...my friend (she's 14 too) had a boyfriend who was 20 but she told him that they shouldnt go any further in their relationship because of all the consequences and told him that probably had a lot of girlfriends in his day so let her experience boyfriends too...he got mad but eventually he told her that its ok with him and that he will wait for her but he is just worried that she wont love him anymore...and she told him maybe she wont, but still she needs to make her own decisions...you have to take control of the situation and we have to make sure we enjoy our lives...do whatever you feel like doing but just consider my advice first...and also consider all the consequences of your actions and your decisions...hope you make the right choice...and if you need to talk to me then just email me...
2006-07-24 05:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by the_one_and_only_loka 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't be stupid. He is way too old for you at your age. You don't even need to be dating at this point. You can't even drive yet and you want to date a guy who could go to jail for messing with you. You are just young. NO NORMAL 21 YEAR OLD MAN WOULD HOOK UP WITH A 14 YEAR OLD CHILD. There is something way way way way wrong here.
2006-07-24 12:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your parents, You are way to young for this guy and he is a pervert for even trying to date you. Stay away from him and stay safe. Boys are like buses, another one will be along in 10 minutes, so just wait for the next one.
2006-07-24 12:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont fall for him.
All he wants is to get into your pants.
If you still like him by time your 18 then go for it.
But I suggest you stay away from that situation starting now.
2006-07-24 12:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by myusedromance13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're joking, right? You're 14, this guy is 21! You DO realize that he only wants one thing, right? Get away from him, he's just gross!
2006-07-24 12:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by illustrat_ed_designs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him knock you up! Then he'll be in your life for at least 18 years and you can figure out if you really like him.
2006-07-24 12:13:23 · answer #6 · answered by ithink... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one if ya say no and he try anyways doesnt sound tooo good, pluss your age is not a good one to be doin this, you need to stick w/ the age group for awhile he is lookin for young to mold and control or would be datin his age group the bars and hang outs and all, you cant be there and gonna be awhile before you can, it doesnt work and if family finds out he will go to jail and you just more trouble, please before it gets that far!!!!!
2006-07-24 12:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just remember you're a minor, if you really want to have a long term relationship with him there is no sex for 4 years for you...can you hold out that long
2006-07-24 12:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by mtugodfath3r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not worth it sweetie. UR too young, have you heard of statutory Rape? if not, look it up. Concentrate on your education, he's just a pedophile.
2006-07-24 12:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by smurfee68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are to young, just take it easy w/ older guys because they are slick, but just talk to ure parents first and try to explain it to them and if they say no, just leave it alone
2006-07-24 12:13:30 · answer #10 · answered by LADY J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋