If your boyfriend tells you that you were boring him during sex, what should you do? What are some things to spice sex up?
2006-07-24 05:00:29 · 18 answers · asked by Rowi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This was my first time that's why I said i didnt know what i was doing. It was hard. I was nervous and a little scared but I definately liked it.
2006-07-24 05:01:43 · update #1
I know my boyfriend cares about me. He was also a little drunk too. could that have made a difference?
2006-07-24 05:11:04 · update #2
that's actually a rude and cold thing to say to anyone.....especially someone that doesn't have that much experience.....anyway.....take your time and get to each others likes and dislikes....communicate....that is truly the only way to spice things up.
2006-07-24 05:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully U let him know this is ur first time. If U did then U should find someone that is more sensitive because he does not care for U. I think maybe U should have waited to have sex until U have found someone that deserved ur precious vauluables.I know U liked it but make sure the next partner cares a little about U. Good Luck!
2006-07-24 12:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking him will be the best start. Although personally I think anyone insensitive enough to call you boring during sex doesn't deserve you. If you do want to keep him, though try asking him what he wants you to do. Unless your a mind-reader you'll never know for sure what he wants. What one guy thinks is the greatest thing in the world in bed might seem pretty lame to someone else.
2006-07-24 12:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he says that tell him the same. he is the one with experience. but you will have to research sex and positions. get the karma sutra, and go to adult bookstores and see what others are doing behind closed doors. this way you can have an idea of what he likes and what you might want to try. it does not hurt to look at a few movies with him. and after the research put it into action. and if he is still bored then tell him to move on.
2006-07-24 12:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by cmac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was your first time, and he was telling you that you were boring, he's a total moron, a self-centered jerk who only cares about himself, and you should do yourself a huge favor and dump him... unless of course you're one of those foolish girls who thinks a stupid guy is better than no guy.
Here's a clue... have sex with someone who truly loves you, who is committed to you. If it's just sex, it gets boring FAST.
2006-07-24 12:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he wants. If he doesnt know what he wants from you then how are you supposed to know? At the end of the day theres not that much girls can do in bed so maybe try doing more foreplay.
2006-07-24 12:03:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first and he said you bored him. This guy sounds like an asshole. Next time jsut don't be so nervous. Try to get into it!
2006-07-24 12:03:27 · answer #7 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just watch a porn at it will give u a lot of ideas, if it was ure first time doing it dont worry itz like that at first but youll learn
2006-07-24 12:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by LADY J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for a first time.. i wouldn't worry about doing it right at all..
just make sure he knows your not too experienced than you can learn what he likes.. what you like too for that matter...
and than figure it out together..
tell him also not to be so insentive as well
2006-07-24 12:04:22 · answer #9 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what did you do when he said you were boring? do you know what he likes/wants?? i mean you could bust out some whip cream but he might not like that either
what do you want/like?
2006-07-24 12:02:58 · answer #10 · answered by tracker 9000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋