i met my boyfriends bestfriend and he known my cousin and now me and him are talking about what we like or dis like about the opposit sex and u see that we have alot in common now he wants to go out with me what should i do should i go out break up with my boy friend to go out with him or should i stsy with my boyfriend and waite untill the relation snip die out first then go otu with him
2006-07-24 04:59:46 · 20 answers · asked by sexychick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow...i had almost the same thing going on as you, but AFTER we broke up, i found out his best friend wanted to get with ME, (he knew i was single) so i was like ALRIGHT!!! (i had liked him already, but i never told anyone, not even my friends, i just kept it to myself). i got with his b.f but i didn't do it to get back at my ex, i did it because i liked his best friend. sounds kind of mest up, yes i know.
back to 2 though, i'd break up with him b/c your leading your bf on right now...i'm thinking that he assumes everything is going good in your relationship. and that's kinda wrong that his best friend KNOWS that you two are together, yet he's trying to get with you...i don't know if he'd be called a 'best friend' @ the moment.
hope everything works out b/w you guys
2006-07-24 06:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by Alexis Samira 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Well i doubt that the boy that wants to go out wit u is gonna wait that long and plus if u really think that u mite have a better relationship wit him then cut ur old boo loose and see wat the future has is store mamaz...i was ina similar situation my bestfriend's boyfriend liked me i neva told her but i would neva talk 2 him like dat but even talkin 4 a lil bit on the phone can start problems..good luck
2006-07-24 12:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by ling ling 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all what kind of girlfriend are you you're going to dump you boyfriend to go out with his best friend. Oh yeah and what the hell kind of friend is this guy. However, if there is no feelings between you and your boyfriend, you probably ought to tell him that, and try to give him a little time before you start parading around in front of him with your new boyfriend/his ex-best friend. It would just be courteous.
2006-07-24 12:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say this guy is a scumbag anyway for wanting to date his friend's girlfriend. Do what you will but if you do so then you freely accept all hatred that may come your way from your boyfriend
2006-07-24 12:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl no afence but you are sounding a little slutish to me I mean don't get mad that is what any one would see I think it is wrong to do that this is a hard thing to answer um if I were you if you don't like your boy friend break up with him but I would try to find some one lese besides his friend girl realy cuz though his friend might like you if you two break up every one is gonna call you a slut good luck!
2006-07-24 12:06:29 · answer #5 · answered by Beverly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your bf don't end it just because. I wouldn't date his friend, that isn't right. There are so many people out there. If you don't wanna be with your bf, then choose someone else who isn't his best friend. You already wanna hurt your bf by breaking up with him for no reason, why hurt him even more by going out with his best friend and ruining their friendship?!? That is so selfish of you!
2006-07-24 12:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by curious_boricua_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay away from the best friend. It probably won't last & you'll just make a lot of people angry. Plus the friend will probably have doubts about your faithfulness. He'll think, well if she ditched my friend so easily & was talking to me behind his back, what's to prevent her from doing this to me?
2006-07-24 12:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by aka Astra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look @ it this way would it be fair if your boyfriend was with you but then saw your friend and wanted to break up with you for her?????? You must really not like your boyfriend if you would rather go out with his friend.
2006-07-24 12:04:11 · answer #8 · answered by brookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, SPELL CHECK!
second..if u do this...ull ruin ur relationship with ur bf...and when u and the best friend break up..which you will...they will both hate you instead of just one....and why do u want to date a guy whos willing to steal his best friends girl anyway?
2006-07-24 12:03:37 · answer #9 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's fair... if you are a backstabbing ho
Only a real bytch would come between a guy and his soon-to-be-former best friend.
2006-07-24 12:04:17 · answer #10 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋