You had just got to know your best friend's babe. Both of you are involved in a project, thus got to know each other better in the process. Not too long later, she asked you out for shopping and a meal, without your best friend.
You didn't realised until you both met up. Her reason for not asking your best friend along is... 'I just didn't ask him out', she answered.
Will you let your best friend know about the meeting up? Or will you just keep it from your best friend?
2006-07-24 04:54:52 · 33 answers · asked by DumbUglyBoring 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that it is always great when you can get along with the person that your best friend is dating and i don't think that there is any harm in meeting up without the friend as long as he knows about it. once you realized that he wasn't going to be there it would have been best to be up front and maybe say that you didn't feel comfortable being with her without him, apologize, and leave. but even if that didn't happen, you still have sort of a responsibility to him to let him know what happened. I'm not saying that you have to go and "tell on her" but maybe mention it in passing. "hey, how come you weren't there?" that kind of thing. this is a little bit of a situation because you don't really want to start problems between your friend and his girl but, you should be honest with your friend. that way he'll know that he can trust you.
2006-07-24 05:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by michelle c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think ur walking on a dangerous path. this is ur best friends chick and ok so u didnt know why until u got there but when u realized it u should have told her hey ur my best friends girl this is wrong u doing this. if ur sure that was her intentions. maybe she just wanted to take u out for job well done on project. still if she does it again tell her no u respect ur best friend and wont betray him.so dont let ur friend know u didnt know what her intentions were. so now u do so if u do it agai nwhich i hope u dont then u need to tell him ok.good luck
2006-07-24 05:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are sluts but do have feelings ask her to make sure that you are not just making a big deal out of nothing if she does like you tell her you can't go on like that it is not right. tell your friend he might not understand and she will probobly say it never happened and he will end up calling you the lier don't mess withit though he will find out in time and you will be the good guy if there was a witness to the two of you have them confront your buddy
2006-07-24 05:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by Beverly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on whether anything happened, and how into this girl you are. If it was simply an innocent meeting of friends, there shouldn't be any reason she wouldn't want him to know. He is your best friend... unless you are in love with this girl, you shouldn't keep it from him.
2006-07-24 04:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by Bunny*Run 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront the best friends mate first. Tell her this is unacceptable and if it continues you will tell her husband. If it was a one time mistake or some test of your reaction, it may not be worth the harm of telling. If she continues to betray her relationship or hit on you...you need to tell.
2006-07-24 04:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in your friend's shoes. If he's really your best friend and not just some dude you occassionally hang out with, you'll KNOW the right answer to this.
2006-07-24 04:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by jihad_against_muslims 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is nothing going on, then there is nothing to hide. If you feel as though it is not on the up and up, you should not have the meeting and let your friend know of his partners intentions.
2006-07-24 04:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by themogleclan@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are is best friend then you would tell him. If he finds out later then the situation can get worse.
2006-07-24 04:57:23 · answer #8 · answered by RedCloud_1998 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you and your best friend are best friends you should tell him. However he takes it is his business, but at least you dont have to worry about it forever. Plus, what if they have a bad fight and she leaks it, makes you look bad when you arent.
2006-07-24 05:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by Rae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it from him but be very careful with his girl. If she persists, then tell your best friend to let him know he has a sl*t for a gf.
2006-07-24 04:58:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋