How did you get over it? How did you get even?
2006-07-24 04:50:50 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WOW what an idiot
2006-07-24 04:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by Pennywise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex cheated on me. We were seperated anyway. And we eventually divorced. I was upset at first because I felt like nobody would ever want me. He used to say that I was fat (5'5" and 135lbs. after having a baby). And he always liked Asian women and the other woman was Chinese. Now he's married to a Korean lady and they have a son together who has Autism. How did i get over "it." I never really got over the fact that I was cheated on. I don't trust men. But I got over him by concentrating on raising my 3 year old daughter (17 now). He has nothing to do with her except financially. You know what? It's his loss!
2006-07-24 04:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by cheerstoyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting even isn't the answer. It never is, your best revenge is to just forget about them and move on with your life. Its rough, because its an emotional subject, rather than an intellectual one, but its the best thing for you.
And yes, I do speak from experience, I have had a girlfriend or three cheat on me.
2006-07-24 04:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by illustrat_ed_designs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is DO NOT try to get even. when i suspected a bf cheated on me, and i was right, i never talked to him again, then after a couple of weeks, he started calling ME! he or whoever you do this on will get so desperate because he thinks that you will crawl back and you just end up sending him crawling. he called and i told him it was over and hung up. he still calls ever once in a while but i never call back and he knows i mean business
2006-07-24 04:54:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get even is to go to college, graduate and get a job paying more than the person who cheated on you. When you're living in your nice house and driving a nice car you can think "this is what he could have had".
...don't do anything stupid.
2006-07-24 04:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was cheating on me. My friend said he was suspicious of it. And then, as time flew I became suspicious as well. Well, a couple of months later, he ended our six months relationship and I have not spoken to him since. I do not intend to speak to him ever again. So, you could say perhaps I did not get even. However, I did hope one of his girlfriends cheat on him and he can have a nice taste of his own medicine.
2006-07-24 04:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by brooke992002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did , i slapped him. Coz everything he did was all drama, to get things done his way. i can not and i do not appreciate the thought that a guy can think about a girl as an object for pleasure(physical pleasure), just as a tissue paper (use and throw). when he thinks so low about a girl he ought to realise his instinct that he nothing more than an animal and slapping is the best way. y to drag those good memories(when it was all fake) by being quiet about it. Girl u have your self respect u ought to make him realise that atleast..... Plz...
2006-07-24 05:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by zme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope -- never, actually never had a boyfriend ...
If you are thinking about getting even then blow his dad or brother -- sleep with someone that he will have to see or come in contact for the rest of his life -- and make sure you tell him how much better it was than his performances
don't get over it -- after you get revenge -- just move on --- you look pretty , I am sure you can find other men
2006-07-24 04:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by iznit d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got cheated on? That guy is an idiot. Move on ASAP and show him you don't care one bit about him.
As for getting even... that'll take care of itself. The girl he cheated on you with probably will give him some kind of disease or something. Karma is a *****.
2006-07-24 04:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah and he took it harder than i did. He tried to win me back so many times but also told me it was my fault that he cheated. How i got even two weeks later i met my current fiance and truly think i found that guy. I regret nothing from that relationship it only helped me to find the one.
2006-07-24 04:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've had a bf cheat on me yes..
it took me awhile to figure out.. if he was truly happy with me he wouldn't need to cheat or to see what other girls were like..
so i decided i deserved better.. and found myself another guy who won't cheat on me..
it doesn't do very good for your self esteem.. realize your better off without him.. and you'll be much more happier in the long wrong.. even though it might seem like it..
revenge doesn't do very well for your karma
2006-07-24 04:55:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋