I have a girlfriend that I've been dating for the past 2 1/2 years. We love each other alot. for along times she been lying and cheating(not sleeping around). I finally told her last december since we met I've been cheating to with alot of girls. She hated me for ever now her parents hate me too. But I told her I want to change and make stuff right. I have been doing so but she is still acting the same and lying and cheating. When she goes to school she just wants to be friends so she can talk to other people and party. Why would she risk our relationship like that? But I don't know what to do. Only time I'm happy with her is when we have sex. I've done a whole lot of stuff for her that a regular couple won't do. I've gotten her crystal champagne, trips to the beach, front row seats at destiny child concert, and etc. She only does stuff on holidays. If I didn't cheat I would of been played the whole relationship. I love her and I don't want her to leave. Help me please.
2006-07-24 04:47:24 · 8 answers · asked by nino 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this doesn't really sound like a heathly relationship..
specially if your both cheating..
perhaps you should wait until your both ready for a commited relationship
2006-07-24 04:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you man like 16-19 or what cause if you are don't try to be in a steady relationship right now it's to hard just date. I mean enjoy being young you have plenty of time to settle down later.
2006-07-24 11:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt seem like it is a relationship, and you dont seem happy. I think that both of u cheating on eachother explains it. I know that you cheated on her because she cheated on you but, that does not justify it. Cheating is cheating no matter wut. I think you should just move on, get a new girl that you feel wont cheat on you and you dont feel that theres that little feeling of wanting more. Go with your gut feeling differnet people do an need different things. So if your gut feeling says break up wit her break up wit her if it says u luv her and u dont want to break up wit her dont break up wit her.
2006-07-24 12:12:27 · answer #3 · answered by sophia j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She lies you cheat and now you are trying to buy her love. It sounds like you both deserve one another.
2006-07-24 11:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really just tell her how u feel and that you cant take the abuse of the type of relationship
2006-07-24 11:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by Shorty 08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen you shouldn't have cheated on her even if she cheated on you thats not right but you shouldn't have stayed with her if she cheated on you if she did cheat then she dont love you sorry but its the truth
2006-07-24 11:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't really sound like you have a relationship.
Time to move on.
2006-07-24 11:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are done, get out of there, she doesn't deserve you
2006-07-24 11:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by dark author 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋