His profile says he is single and doesn't mention me anywhere. Do you think he is cheating? Is it possible to cheat in cyberspace? Is talking to other women online considered cheating?
2006-07-24 04:35:26 · 26 answers · asked by Rasi E 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well that happened too a friend of mine and at first she thought it was ok but then she found out he had been advertising for other girls,so she told him too get rid of the advert or she would leave him, they are still together today.
2006-07-24 04:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by stephen s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Certainly sounds like he's cheating or at least considering the possibility. Cyberspace makes it much easier to cheat and to try and rationalize this behaviour. ie: They are my on-line friends, we're only talking about..., or, it's all innocent and we only talk professionally. Well I suspect that your boyfriend is not being entirely honest with either himself, you or both of you.
My suggestion would be for the two of you to have a good sit down and discuss his on-line habits. Tell him how you're feeling and most importantly be honest about you're feelings. I hope that he is as honest in return and that the two of you can resolve this issue.
Dangerous abilities these little machines hold. And the fact that so many people use it as a vehicle at the onset as a tool to hone there skills then somehow get caught up with chatting on-line with others only increases the likelihood of increased infidelity.
2006-07-24 13:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think talking on the web is cheating. He might be trying to fill a fantasy that he can't get with you but it isn't really cheating. Besides he is one in a million that ventures into myspace on a regualr basis and for hours at a time. Why don't you go on there and make up your own profile and see what is up :)
2006-07-24 11:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off how old are you guys. Kids and younger people usually put that they are in a relationship because they are too scared to piss off thier significant other. Older more mature people figure thats not as important. ask him if you can see his inbox and if not then say why? Do you have a bunch of girls in there I cant see? You dont have to see the messages, but see who they are from and the frequency. I told my girl i have no secrets and she can look at whatever she wants, and because of that, she has no worries because if she ever gets a hint that I might be cheating, she has access to my email, myspace or cell phone whenever she wants.
2006-07-24 11:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by alienorgy69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry, I think that is called cheating especially when he says hes single and talking to other woman. Well, just think of it this way...Would you consider it cheating if he told another girl at his work he was single and started talking to her, and to top it off never mentioned your name. By the way get his screen name and password off of myspace and DELETE it!!!!
2006-07-24 11:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by brookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My profile says I'm 17 and still in highschool, but that was 3 years ago! maybe he just didn't update the thing! maybe he doesn't care about it anymore and left it to rott because he doesn't need it since.. well... he's got you!
However if you do know for sure that he's looking for other women, then, that's serious! Be careful about confronting him, though, he might ask whatta heck you were doing checking out his profile. And again, him getting angry about that would be a bad sign!
2006-07-24 11:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by Foxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a bad sign when he'd rather be checking for new friend requests than be with his gurl. suggest to him that if he's claiming himself as single online that maybe he'd continue to be single away from cyberspace as well. he'll realize what he's lost. myspace is famous for ruining many people's relationships so you're not the first.
2006-07-24 11:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by effin' h!lar!ous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one thing, yes your man can cheat on u online, and plus hes disrespecting u by saying hes single. a BOY like that shouldnt treat a WOMAN like u that way. u really need to sit down and talk to him, ask him y is he online so much, if he loves u anymore, and even if he wants to go forward in the relationship. its alright, youll get through this girl!!
2006-07-24 11:41:55 · answer #8 · answered by sarah_gotdance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking to other women isn't cheating...As for the his profile saying he is single I can't help you with that one, if it bothers you that much just ask him about it
2006-07-24 11:39:10 · answer #9 · answered by SKully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking to other women on Net can be considered as Flirting.
And you should know him better.
Trust is tht matters Dear in a Relationship
2006-07-24 11:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by CoolestnHotest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am married and I have a few friends that I e-mail,so no I do not think it is cheating.But that is me!But yea I feel like it's weird!I think it is possible to cheat if that is what he wants to do.I think I need more info first!
2006-07-24 11:44:18 · answer #11 · answered by jill f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋