i love him from core of my heart but he is avoiding me i don't no why i asked him several times he used to say that i don't have time im busy etc etc............for him i have destroyed my carrier i can't concentrate on my studies. now i want to make him realize that he lost me & he has done wrong thing by hurting me. the problem is that i m very much emotional i can't live without him. i want to do something like that he will cry for me & i will not be there for him.& i want to become beautiful smart & successful. frnds plz help me out what should i do with that guy that he will cry for me??? how can i become beutiful smart??
2006-07-24 04:30:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just move on.
Thoughts of making him realize that he lost you is only a waste of your time and will just keep you attached to him.
If he has behaved this way he probably wouldn't be able to handle long term committment well anyway. He doesn't deserve you.
2006-07-24 06:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by zero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My goodness sweet heart! I feel your pain here, but admittedly you made some mistakes here. You should NEVER ever let a man be your priority while being his option!!
If this person proposed to you, meaning that he professed his love for you and stated that you are the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with, and now cannot find the time to acknowledge who you are, then maybe "yes" was the wrong answer dear!
You sound so lost. I suggest that you take sometime out for YOURSELF and find out who you really are and what you really want. YOU want to become beautiful and smart? You already are, you just have to think so! Don't let this man take your self-esteem and self worth away from you! You are too good for that. Go back to school, join a club or group of progressive people. You CAN live without him. Don't worry about making him cry for you because I'm sure you have shed enough tears for the both of you. You have to CHANGE your focus and shift back toward yourself! And guess what? If he does not recognize how great you are and the sacrifices you have made for your relationship, someone else will! :)
Good Luck and keep your head up!
2006-07-24 11:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by Mellow_E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never sacrifice something like a career... no matter who that person is till it comes to the point where its either the career or him, and even then its a tough call. Forget the guy, get your priorities straight, get your head down and get some study done. Success will come automatically!
2006-07-24 11:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by Arvind C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its within U(Beauty and smartness)
Do u have any other friends(a handsome guy or someone u trust) just to make him jealous
This is old idea but it works, just try to showoff as u dont care and see the results.
Be happy dear. And post the question if u want any other help, i will be obliged to help u
2006-07-24 11:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by CoolestnHotest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell me one thing why did u love him so deeply....u always have to be prepared this is not a perfect world thing can happen any time....u always have to be prepared for the worst.....listen....u dont have to go through so much pain to impress him...do what u are doing ...and i cant say u avoid him....coz u are already in a mess..move on....thing might be better for u....u have a life dont waste it on some one who does not care for such a life...and such love....some one else deserves it...well that is my opinion
2006-07-24 11:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by ankit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably avoiding you because he has a surprise for you for your wedding day. Don't ask him what the surprise is because he will not say it. It can be a surprise for your wedding.
2006-07-24 13:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by zombiepirate_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go after your dreams first and everything else will follow.
You have one life and one love... so love yourself.
Noone can love you untill you love yourself:)
2006-07-24 11:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by PG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might need to seek counseling
2006-07-24 11:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by Stacie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋