just ended a 6yr relationship yesterday what are the tips tips for moving on and quickly so?

Answer 1

forget about them and hang out with your friends dont talk about it either it will bring back memories

Answer 2

There is no such thing as moving on quickly after a 6 year relationship. It is going to take some time to really be able to move foward after being with someone for a long time. My suggestion is take some time for and to yourself. Do some introspection (but not too much) and then live the rest of your life to it's fullest potential. Life's too short to spend it sad and low. If the person was meant to stay in your life, they would be there, so consider it a blessing! Call your friends, hang out, enjoy who YOU are for yourself. All break ups are hard, but the fun part is finding out what is in store for you next! :)

Good Luck!

Answer 3

It will be hard if someone tell you to forget and step the gas to the fast lane.
You should avoid those places you have cherish with your love one. If a new partner comes into your life, don't speak the past about your ex and hopefully get some pity or a shoulder to cry on.
Spend time with those people who has little or no knowledge of your ex. People who knew, always pour question and you end up with a hanged over next morning.
Do something interesting like trekking, short tour, built a model using match stick, anything to keep your mind away of remembering the past.

Good luck and wish you all the best

Answer 4

After 6 years you aren't going to be able to move on all that quickly unless you really never loved that person. You need to give yourself time to deal with your feelings and emotions. Going for a quick fix will just delay your dealing with this and also risk you messing up any good relationships you stumble into right now. Instead take time to focus on yourself and your life and make it as wonderful as you can. Once you have done this then you will really be ready to move on. It may not be as quick, but it will be more effective and better in the long run.

Answer 5

There arn't any. It's a sad fact of life. Your gona feel upset for a while. Actually the worst thing you can do is rush into another relationship too soon.Just ends up being a rebound thing and other people get hurt by your inability to have a proper relationship with them. You need to give yourself time........Just be around people that make you feel good. And one day you will feel okay about the whole thing and except it for what it was. And then you will be ready to have another relationship. You will feel happy again you just need to give it time.

Answer 6

Ending a relationship will involve a certain amount of grieving and it doesn't matter how busy you make yourself it'll hit you in the end. May as well get it out of the way now. Cry, be depressed, listen to 'your' song on repeat, go to places you used to hang out and allow yourself to feel sad.

Do keep one eye on the future though. Set yourself a goal in another area of your life work, family, a holiday, making a big purchase, and in the times when your not too depressed, work towards this goal. Eventually there'll be less sad times and you'll feel like going out again and perhaps meeting new people.

Needless to say don't throw yourself in any new relationships, and be wary of one night stands- you might hurt yourself or others in the process.

Answer 7

The best thing you can do is learn to live in the present moment. If you are talking to friends, really listen to them. If you are working just zone in on what you are doing. If you go for a walk notice the nature around you. If you are exercising just focus on what you are doing. It will only hurt if you focus on it. Acknowledge how you feel and then let it go by going on to the next thing in front of you.

If I may suggest a book? It's called the Power of Now. Without it I would have been a wreck with my last serious break up. You only need to read it 5 or ten minutes a day to help to remind you to stay present.

This skills you learn can literally transform your life in which its troubles will seem less grave and you will find the bliss of interconnection with the world around you.

If you take my words seriously, I garuntee you will not break apart, but instead find much joy. Best of wishes on this journey. Feel free to contact me if you need further help.

Answer 8

i can tell u for free u aint gonna be able to move on quickly. u definitely gonna be thinking about it for a while but it takes determination to moveon. no lie, its hard but u gotta work ur way thru it. if u broke it up coz u cant handle it then dont be a victim dont go back to it. There definitely would be days when u want him to be there or u wanna talk to him but stick with ur decision.
Well it all comes down to how much u love him. at times its right to break up for a while and get back together but most times its necessary to move on a dont give it a second thought coz thats when u gonna start doubting and second guessing ur decisions.

its definitely a good feeling to be free coz u have no one to answer to and its less stress. just so u know u have two options to work with.

1. move on with ur life and be patient till u find the right guy.

2. think about the level of love u guyz have for each other and see if u could live without him. if u know deep down that u can live without him, then MOVE ON WITH UR LIFE. its not worth crying over.

Good Luck M.S.

Answer 9

Sorry "wetlips", there ain't no way. I learned in a psych class once that when a relationship has ended, a person needs about a month of grieving for every year they were in the relationship. So, maybe in February you'll have really moved on. There's no shortcuts when it comes to matters of the heart.

Answer 10

well the tips is to cry ur eyes out get over him and then going out. if u got the gf that like to go out and have fun let them know ur single and wantt o go out. just have fun and maybe they can introduce u to soem new people. u r no longer anybodys so u can do what u want. so get out there and meet some people. u dont need to rush it u know u can take ur time. 6years is a long time u know. so yeah maybe u should not really think bout doing it so quickly. so yeah good luck out there

Answer 11

Poor baby. Me and my husband broke up 3 years ago, what helped me was to set small goals. I made little plans that led up to bigger plans. Things like going back to school. My first goal was just to register. These small goals consumed me so much that I didnt have time to think about him. And before I knew it, time had passed, I had completed 3/4 of my BS degree, saved a ton of money, and done a lot of other things that I was really proud of. Either way, don't worry, one of the most surest things you can depend on is that no matter what time will most definitely pass.