I need help on how to ask a very special girl out and i don't know how to approach her to ask her. This is my first time because I think I found the right girl.
How do I approach to ask her out? Should I do something special or what?
2006-07-24 04:18:42 · 15 answers · asked by swift 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask her out sweetie. Just introduce yourself, and be persistent, but not until the point where it makes you look desperate lol. But let the girl know that you've been eyeing her, and you've become to take interest in her, and that you like her, and then go for the master plan, drop the bomb, and ask "I was wondering if you would like to accompany me to a date, maybe to the movies, or dinner, or out bowling, whatever you want to do?"
2006-07-24 04:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by Danyizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it depends how well this girl already knows you! If she knows you well, doing something special (nice restaurant, going some nice place after) could be great but if she doesn't know you then she could turn you around! Search around to know what she likes to do. Ask her if she has seen that great movie you loved. See how it goes. Maybe she loves movies and maybe not! Some girls like a direct approach while others don't. If you think she is the love of your life then simply be natural. If you do something great but it's not you, the girl may be disappointed later on... Make sure to go and talk to her whatever you decide to do!
2006-07-24 11:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you r just asking her out you shouldnt really make it too specil if she doesnt even know you. You should make it special for a proposal or anniversary or something. You should make it nice but nothing to special or fancy just do it the regular way. Go up to her and start talking to her and be like you are so beautiful dont say shes "hot" and say that you've been thinking about asking her out for a long time but you thought a girl like her would turn you down. Trust me im a girl. And if you are an attractive guy she would say yes. If you are unnatractive she might just let you down easy.
2006-07-24 11:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are very responsive to flattery. Tell her you think she's beautiful, and you'd like to learn more about her. Ask her if she would like to have dinner, and is she free next Saturday. Give her at least a few days or you'll seem too eager. Good luck ;)
2006-07-24 11:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by Bunny*Run 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people will just say be yourself but not only do you have to do that, find out if she likes you back, and be caring and honest, but dont be too touchy and loving, just let her know how you feel show her who you are, and never seam too desperate what I mean is dont touch her all over and dont sit right, right by her give her some space and tell her how you feel. good luck!
2006-07-24 11:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
XXXXXXXX Finding the right girl isn't that easy but who knows you may be right. Who am I to say you aren't. Send her flowers with a card and ask her out. That always seem like a nice jesture. XXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-24 11:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't beat around the bush because I personally find that highly irritating. Just be casual and don't try to sound overly romantic or overly cool because those are also annoying. don't try to be overly seductive, because if she likes you, then you wouldn't need to try that hard. definitely do it in person.
you should just be honest and ask her straight up, and be confident, but be yourself.
2006-07-24 11:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by taravachine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her, don't try to give her a line. most women don't like that. be straight forward and don't beat around the bush. go right up to her, with confidence, and tell her you like her and want to take her to dinner.
2006-07-24 11:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u da man! walk the walk and talk the talk...send her flowers with a note that she is as beautiful as these flowers and it would soothe your heart if she would accept this invitation to go out with you...show her your generous and romantic and allow her to want to find out more about you...good luck.
2006-07-24 11:26:17 · answer #9 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shood go right up to her and say her name and say that your are rely specley to me so may bre wood u like to go out and say may be to see movey name here then go out 4 pezza or some kind off food place then let it go from there
2006-07-24 11:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by Tiffany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋