2006-07-24 04:14:54 · 37 answers · asked by Omar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
O how awesome for you, don't sweat the small stuff and make time for yourselves and time to hang out with friends, SEPERATELY!!!
2006-07-24 04:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by cali_gal716 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what kind of girl you are dating here are a few pointers I hope one can help you:
1. try new things the same thing will get old after a while so mix it up if you guys are activly going about it try to pull a differant rout like do it in various places in the house or even in your car then it is more interesting cuz you have the chance of being cought
2. be romantic. get her flowers or if you live togather then live a note behind saying you love her and will miss her when you too are apart (like at work) if you don't live togater then leave flowers and the same note on her front porch then ring the dore bell once then run off so she doesn't see you.
3.cook for her in a relation ship there are two so don't leave everything up to her maybe plan a trip when you know she doesn't have to work or even plan something like a nice dinner or something.
4.share EVERYTHING if you did something you are ashamed of set her down and tell her the one thing that broke me and my boyfriend up that had been dating me for 2 and a half years was that I had a secret that I had not shared with him. or even better DON'T do anything to make her mad.
I hope one of these things can help you best luck!
2006-07-24 04:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by Beverly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to stay in a relationship is to constantly "pave the road out". It is when people start to feel "trapped" that they start looking over fences.
Also, let them be themselves. This sounds simple enough but I would say about 99% of the people I know hide, change, or alter part of their personalities as soon as thier boyfriend/girlfriend walks into the room.
Do not use each other as your sole sense of support and love. One you make someone the "Center of your Universe" it puts a huge responsibilty on that person ... not to mention its an unfair and impossible task. No one person can fullfil all the needs of another. In short, have a life!
And lastly, the woman you love now will not be the same person in 5 years, 10 years... (just like you are not the same person you were 10 years ago). Allow for change.
2006-07-24 04:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love, honesty, this is hard, but it is a must, then ther is jealousy.. There must be none of this.. You both need time away from eachother and time with friends.. I suggest you try as hard as possiable to be social to the others friends.. Know that both of you will always find the opposite sex attractive and allow eachother to look.. Be friends as well as lovers.. I have been married 10 years and have hardly ever fought with my wife.. Small stupid spats like having the air conditioning to high.. Good Luck and don't beleive anyone who tells you it cannot last. My friends gave us less than a year..
2006-07-24 04:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think love is like the waves of the ocean, it crests and falls off. The trick in long term relationships is to pay attention to the pulse of the relationship. Over the years you and your partner will fall in and out of love hundreds possibly thousands of times. The trick is to realize that nothing is forever- neither the good times or the bad- and the best you can do in a relationship is to try to keep in touch with the feelings of your partner.
2006-07-24 04:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by Luci 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a much greater chance of staying together if you think the same way and understand it each other, as well as agreeing about the important things in life. Talking about all this stuff may make you feel threatened, but more in love, thats normal.
2006-07-24 04:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by BigPappa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my honey were married after 6wks of dating. we have been married 12 yrs now. i love him to death. we just keep having fun together and don't get hung up on each others short comings. if you make a big deal out of the little pet peeves then you are headed down a bad road. stay true to each other, and don't let friends or family come in between you. keep out all the gossip and trust each others word. we made a promise to each other when we married that parents and friends are second to our relationship. stick together in the hard times and stand up for each other. i can't tell you how many times trouble has tried to come between us, but we stick together, because he knows that i will not do anything to deceive him or under-mind him, and i know the same about him.
2006-07-24 04:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married many years:
Be very good to each other and always talk about how you feel.
As for you, if she gets moody and PMS sets in, just buy her flowers or chocolate and DON'T FIGHT because PMS fights don't mean anything.
Make sure you always spend time together. My husband's favorite place to be is home and he doesn't party without me and I think that's the best way to be.
2006-07-24 04:17:54 · answer #8 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is wonderful relation in the world. Be in touch with ur girl. have a chat with her daily. be prompt in ur love. never expect much more from her. always remember LOVE is a language that HEART speaks.
2006-07-24 04:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember, it takes 100% all the time from each of you - its easy now anyway because its new. The challenge comes when the relation get routine.
good luck and enjoy!
2006-07-24 04:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by effin ken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't cheat or screw it up. try to keep her happy. argue if you got to and get it out in the open. be honest. If you don't like something tell her. Let her know she can be honest too. thats about all i can think of.
2006-07-24 04:28:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋