Should I have sex at the age of 17? I am sill a virgin! This guy is coming over today! I dont know if I want to have sex with him! Do I just have sex with him or do I just tell him that I am not ready? I want to do it! But then again...I think I am little to young to have sex! Some one help me plz! LOL!
2006-07-24 03:27:43 · 46 answers · asked by Cassie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree....if you are unsure...you are not ready. You have time girl and if you say know to him, you can easily test his loyalty! Don't do it because it is something you can never get back!
2006-07-24 03:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by JusME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having doubts about having sex then you have answered your own question. If you were ready to have sex you wouldn't be thinking twice about it and you definitely wouldn't care what other people's opinions were on it. I don't think you should do it because you really don't want to. Trust me it hurts a lot the first time. The pain is really bad so if you do decide to have sex it is not what you will expect it to be the first time. For him it will be great especially since your a virgin. Remember guys love a virgin. If you feel you are too young then wait. Sex has a lot of responsibilities that go with it. Once you start you are opening yourself up to pregnancy and diseases. There is no rush take it from me. You sound like a smart girl listen to your own advice.
2006-07-24 03:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the biggest problem everyone is having with your question is that you are referring to losing your virginity with 'this guy'.
The first time you have sex is one of the most important events in a woman's life. I've never spoken to a single one that didn't CLEARLY remember her first time.
Make it special. A lot of women miss out on that buy just having sex with 'some guy' or taking the opportunity when it comes. It should be flowers and wine (just a little) and as romantic as possible. If its not, if its not a built up very special thing. Then wait.
Its something you only get to do once, do it right.
2006-07-24 03:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling, there's no rush, you are still young. Sex is not a thing that if you like it you can go for it. It's sacred honey, it should be done with love and in a right time. I am not a virgin until I reach 21 years and I did it with the man that I do love even though our relationship didn't work out but I never regret it because we both love each other, I want you to feel the same way to. and believe me, it feels good specialy if you do to the one you realy love. And if this guy love you, he will understand and willing to wait.
2006-07-24 03:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were ready, you would know it. Don't have sex just to have it. Be proud of the fact that at 17 you're still a virgin. Why not wait until you know the time is right?
2006-07-24 03:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have issue of you're online asking complete strangers whether or not you should have sex. What's wrong with just making out? Or hanging out? If you're gonna do it, then you're gonna do it but have these words run through your mind before you do:
- pregnancy
- STDS
- HIV
- AIDS
and don't forget there are hundreds of things that fall under the category of STDS. And of the hundreds that are out there, some are NOT cureable. This guy is gonna look at you as one of two things if you do this 1) booty call or 2) easy...and after he brags to everyone he did you they'll want to call you and come over too.
Be smart. If you decide to be stupid, then at least use a condom.
2006-07-24 03:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by makeitclap23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With that kind of doubt and controversy going on in your head, the safe move is to hold off a little while longer. Don't get into something you are not ready for. It's not fair to him and it's not fair to you. If you want to fool around, give him a knober or a hand job. Hold off on sex until you are sure that you are ready.
2006-07-24 03:32:12 · answer #7 · answered by Mikey B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your gut feelings are the ones you should always follow. When a person is ready to have sex, they just know it whole heartedly. If you are having even the smallest doubt, then do not do it. You will regret it afterwards and it's just not worth it . Value yourself and demand that any man your spend your time with does the same. If he cares for you at all, he will respect that you aren't ready.
2006-07-24 03:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask strangers if you should have sex, you aren't ready for it. There is no specific age where sex is "allowed" it is all about you and if you feel ready for it. It is a very big step in your life and i would hate to see you regret it down the road. My advice is to wait until the right person comes alone, not just that the opportunity presents itself.
2006-07-24 03:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you're saying it's like you're not sure you want to give your virginity up...once you give it up, it's gone....it clearly shows that you're not ready b-cuz you're debating on whether to sleep with this guy or not...if I were you I'd wait a little longer because trust me, having sex is not like the movies portray that....so....and think about all the risks....You're only 17....Just make the right decision based on YOU....not what he wants...but what you truly want.
2006-07-24 03:32:23 · answer #10 · answered by princess_09_r_s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was once in you spot....Well who is this Guy boyfriend etc. your standards should be set high. I did at your age but this guy was a bf for a extended peiod of time i work labor and deliveary and you will never know how many girl have this sexual flings get preg and the jerk heads for the hills they will never tell u that but it happens more often than your know and at 17 ,,,,,,there is no true commentment , but a diamond is forever one done day youll have to tell your husband about your past, TRUST ME I WISH WISH WISH i could tell my husband that i have only given my self to him but thats not that case, i have profe- a child even thought my childs dad is involved that is few a far in between at you age. Good luck!
2006-07-24 03:38:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋