what are the advantages for being a virgin if you are not yet married?
2006-07-24 03:13:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Quotations
No STD's.
And I know there will be the folks out there that will say you need to find out if you are compatible with your man before your marriage.
In a study in college we had 30 people of each sex, both hetro and homo included, blindfolded (guys clean shave'n) and separated by a partition. They each kissed each other and after the exit questions we found that lips on lips feel like lips. You determine your sexual attractiveness to anyone else in your head not by "trying it on for size".
Give your man the ultimate gift of love in marriage and ask him to save it for you too. Then take your time together in the wonderful exploration of love in a committed relationship. It really does make the sex better.
2006-07-24 03:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by DMR 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It depends you religion to take this choice and your morals.The advantages is that when you get married you finally have intercourse with the man you love and your relationship will feel so much better not saying that having sex before marriage is you know but the Best thing to do is stay like that. You will be pure not alot of women are virgens today all those hormones but men prefer a pure women
2006-07-24 07:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By keeping your virginity, you are doing the right thing. You are saving yourself for the right person. Don't do anything until you know he is right for you and you marry him. If you just give it away and he isn't the right one, you will regret it trust me. Also, by keeping yourself a virgin till you are married, you don't have to worry about diseases. Hopefully you'll find someone as pure as you are. Good luck in your decision. Take care and God Bless!
2006-07-24 03:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by curious_boricua_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, for starters, you will be sharing a beautiful gift w/your husband, if you are a virgin. Being a virgin is smart--you are minishing your risks of sexually transmitted diseases, you are cutting the risks of cervical cancer--linked to HPV, sexually transmitted, you are reducing the likelihood of being "used." it is also a sacred communion that you will share w/aperson who is not simply having sex--but making love and commiting to you in marriage. Don't listen to anyone who may argue that if you abstain, you won't know whether there is compatibility. The truth when two people love each other, there is compatability!
2006-07-24 08:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I held on to mine so the husband I would marry would have something special but trhe guy I lost it too was a virgin too and we have a kid together and I haven't ever been with anyone else so I hope to one day be with him.
2006-07-24 03:19:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the old bumper sticker?
"To all you virgins - thanks for nothing"
Personal choice. We hear from some people that a woman should remain a virgin until married. Does the same apply to a man? Don't hear as much about that one... Personal choice.
2006-07-25 02:59:02 · answer #6 · answered by Tony P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is spiritual and/or religious in nature. There are girls (unmarried) at 13 that loose their virginity and others at 30+ that are still virgins (i think) It is totally your choice, there is much to be said about being virtuous.
2006-07-24 04:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by ••Mott•• 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its something very special and should be saved for the wedding nigthidh t. is the way the bride lets her husband know that he is the first.
2006-07-26 17:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by madamtortuga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know, are you sure you would marry someone who you may not be sexually compatible with?
2006-07-24 03:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
saving it for your husband, since you can only give it away once...
2006-07-24 03:16:30 · answer #10 · answered by sweetiepie22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋