Okay... heres the thing. I have been talking to a guy on the phone. he has a girlfriend and they have been dating for 7 months almost 8. I always thought he was a jerk until i talked to him on the phone and come to find out he is a really sweet, sensitive guy. he talked on the phone like we were together or something. He fits all the things i want in a dream guy. Well.... he said the other day when we were talking that if i wanted to wait and then maybe he would be single or if wanted to move on and talk with other guys. cause he knows how many guys i have dated. TOO MANY!!! i am ashamed of that. But heres my "Q". Should i wait for him or just move on?
2006-07-24 03:09:38 · 13 answers · asked by chelsea b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can always move on and if he becomes single, reevaluate your situation, but not put a hold on your life for something that might not even happen. He might be using you to feed his ego, it's very flattering to feel like somebody would wait for you to be single. If he thought highly of you, he would leave his girl now, you are second best to him right now.
2006-07-24 03:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 37⤊ 1⤋
If dating and sex are two different things, then you can not date too many people. You owe it to yourself to limit the field until you are older and seriously thinking about settling down with a family. This advice is good for both males and females. When you find the right one for you, it does not matter who he/she was with before, but that he/she is with you now. Anyone that is intimidated by the history of of someone's love life because they have met more people is a very insecure person. They are more concerned about how they compare with those you have dated in the past and less concerned about being themselves. People have a tendency to show who they want you to see them as, and not who they really are. It takes time to break through the facade and if you don't like what you see, you move on. If he can't handle that, then you are better off with someone that is a bit more mature in their relationship savvy.
2006-07-24 03:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he's sincere and sweet you have to consider the fact that he's actually considering cheating on his girlfriend. After all, If you two get together, who's to say he won't do the same thing to you?
2006-07-24 03:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by stpolycarp77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think you should move on cause there is no real guarantee he gives you.And do you say you decide on a guy by just a phone call,watch your step.
2006-07-24 03:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by Karthik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on sweetie there are other fish in the sea.....plus this guy has a girlfriend and if he has not left her yet then he is not going to...guys just like to have girls on the side so just in case they are not with thier girlfriends anymore they can move on.....but that is seriously immature.....so just move on
Good Luck
Cassie
2006-07-24 03:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! move on. keep this in mind, if he's talking to you while he has a girl, what do you think he'll do once he's with you. have respect for yourself and don't be someone's "other" girl. find someone who will make you "the" girl.
2006-07-24 03:16:47 · answer #6 · answered by HopeThisHelps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can move on after 2 years. GOOD LUCK. Your boyfriend will accept you.
2006-07-24 03:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by Benny W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's already seeing someone else and he said "he may" be single, that's no guarantee. I would suggest you move on.
2006-07-24 03:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by daisy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, he's not THAT sensitive.
2006-07-24 03:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you should wait for him instead of the opposite??!
don't wait,move on!
2006-07-24 03:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by xadakia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋