I had a one night stand with this chick & she keeps coming back for more!! What can I do to get it thru her head that I dont want 2nd's?!!
2006-07-24 02:35:31 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You must be the bomb boy!!! First off dont F*ck em if you dont want them to *** back for more!! This is ur Karma!!
2006-07-24 05:08:34 · answer #1 · answered by BooSha 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Tell her you had a good time, but you're not interested in a repeat. If you don't want to tell her to her face, write an email/note to her. Be nice but firm. State your position and leave it at that. If she still insists on seeing you, don't take her calls, etc. If you see her regularly (school, work, etc.), always be busy. Go out with other girls and make it apparent you have. She's after you because you must have given her something she liked. Don't be mean to her, she just likes you.
2006-07-24 09:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are naturally attached to men they have sex with. Try to remember that next time you have a one- nighter. Did she know before hand that you wanted a one nighter? Try telling someone first so there isn't any misunderstanding. Sometimes women or young ladies try to feel wanted by having sex, to fill a void. Have a heart and tell her your sorry for the misunderstanding that you are not interested in getting involved with anyone at this time. Tell her that you should have been clearer at the beginning.
2006-07-24 09:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by Veronica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well one u should do one night stands because u can get any kind of disease and to u can invite her over and sleep with another guy or have a threesome with two other people and if that doesn't work tell her u got drunk and accidentally had a one night stand
2006-07-24 09:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by angel123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just flat out tell her it was a one time thing, that's how it was and how it is gonna stay. Some pple can't take a hint. You may feel mean but you have to be mean to some pple to get them to get the picture. Tell her you were drunk and it wasn't good enough to come back for more!
2006-07-24 09:40:13 · answer #5 · answered by krisaquarius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, u made this problem urself. U get what u deserve. She wouldn't have clinged to you if u had made it clear in the first place that this was just going to be a one time thing. But then maybe u wouldn't have got it at all.
2006-07-24 09:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you had fun with her but you are not ready for any serious relationships right now. Say your sorry if you hurt her feelings but you would feel awful if you didn't be honest with her. Mostly all a girl needs is closure. Good Luck.
2006-07-24 09:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by Cool Callie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you got what you wanted and she should leave you alone now.
If she keeps it up and makes you feel bad, don't act like you care AT ALL. It's worse to have to deal with her than to seem like a jerk.
2006-07-24 09:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, just let her know da truth dat you have no interest in her. Cuz if you don't say notiin like you said she's just gonna keep coming back for more. But let her down nicely...don't be jerk bout it.
2006-07-24 09:39:58 · answer #9 · answered by Traviesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha!
That will teach you... Not to have them! (one night stands are evil and even if you used a condom - there are still chances that she might be pregnant or worse - you could get an std!)
2006-07-24 09:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by Chellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehehehe Oh man, that sounds bad! You're going to have to tell her it was just a one night affair. Hopefully she'll understand. Clingy people are the worst!!
2006-07-24 09:37:30 · answer #11 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋