I left him 2yrs ago due to him not giving me a legal marriage cert when i lived with him but i know that deep inside me i still love him.
I also have other guy frens and they are interested in me and i dont know could it be due to sex only. I am a highly sex person so what should i do ? so i give my ex-bf a chance to come back or should i go around with other guys?
2006-07-24 02:34:58 · 12 answers · asked by sabrina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey, if he really loved you, he wouldn't need to "snaek around" with you.... if he truly loves you, he will end his current relationship before asking you to start one up again
2006-07-24 02:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i could only envied your ex-bf but if it's any thing that's needs hiding it 's certainly not a good thing.
I certainly hoped it 's sex and not love, maybe then i would stand a chance.Could it be the same for your x-bf ,a love for sex rather than love for you
Heeeerrrr(laughs)
Seems like you are spolit for choice as well "around with other guys"
If only i had such a variety to chose from
Tell him you want him to be your secret companion as well becos you have a bf you like very much
If he agrees, then it must be a love for sex because no man wants to share the woman that he loves most.
2006-07-24 06:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by lucas l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You ask if you should give your bf the chance to come back, but face it...he's not going to.
If he wanted to be with you, he would. He is with someone else.
If he wanted to be with you, he would leave that girl and be with you completely -but all you can get is a secret affair.
Even if you could lure him to you through sex, he's already proven that you are not marraige or lifetime material. He would just leave you again when something better came along.
End this unhealthy relationship, and focus on you...then find someone who loves you totally...not just as a side dish.
2006-07-24 02:39:58 · answer #3 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing: HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU...if he did he would NEVER ask you to be his "secret companion" especially when he is living with another woman.
Second thing: An ex is an ex for a reason...leave it that way...if you weren't happy the first time around chances are you won't be the second time either.
2006-07-24 03:15:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sabrina, Its natural for a woman to ask for a legal document just in case. Just think too hard after the sexual satisfaction, I mean soon after, and you will tell whether the other guy friends are only good sexually or its true love. You can only make this decision when you are "sexually sober". If you feel no attachement, go back to your first love as long as both of you will agree to a set of rules.. e.g how often you will meet and all that.
2006-07-24 02:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Sex is fine but dangerous. Multiple partners can kill you. At the risk of putting your nose out of joint I also offer you a few choice bits of wisdom that you can take to heart or not. You would be wise to find somebody who is ready to marry and settle down and do just that. The fact you can think and ask questions indicates you have a brain so I suggest you use it wisely.
2006-07-24 02:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him unless you want to live with a bastard. You might be the ten persons he asked to be his secret companion. Highly sex person doesn't meant you can't have a normal family.
2006-07-24 14:05:43 · answer #7 · answered by Tan D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sabrina, why would a mature intelligent woman such as yourself even want a guy that is living with another woman? Time to move on.
2006-07-24 03:13:15 · answer #8 · answered by rilindy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Secret Companion?? My god... Ignore him... Its just his urge to have 2 women or more in hand. Life moves on, unless you are ok with it. But from what i see from you its that you never lack of guys in your life, so why bother about him? Go on... Life goes on...
2006-07-24 16:31:22 · answer #9 · answered by charlie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wake up .. he is not the type that wants to be tied down. Dump him since there are others keen on you,
2006-07-24 02:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by j t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋