2006-07-24 02:10:57 · 19 answers · asked by Mili 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't make someone to realize your worth or force them to be in love with you, thoes are things they have to learn or realize on thier own. Most guys won't realize it till long after. The best thing to do is avoid him and not talk to him and see what he does...if he realizes what he gave up then he will come back...if not then you guys were never ment to be together in the first place and im sure another guy who will see how great you are will be there for you.
2006-07-24 02:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Unless you're into voodoo, you can't MAKE someone love you.
You CAN however make yourself more attractive to him. This is done physically, and mentally.
1) Work out...hard. An awesome body is so alluring, plus the daily drive and motivation it takes to achieve a nice body is a turn on as well.
2) Focus on you. I don't know how old you are, but pay attention to school and your career. If you're in school...study hard and join a couple of clubs/activities.
Show him that you aren't dependent on him. I know you probably don't care for this advice - most girls just want to be so dependent on the guy that they think that suffocating him with affection is the key to his heart - it is not.
Suffocating him and being clingy is a sure fire turn off. You are no longer a challenge for him. Everyone wants a challenge. Since you are not a challenge, you want him more than he wants you....which means the harder you push for him, the less he will respond.
You being strong, and NOT dependent is what can bring him back. Guys love a challenge and a girl that doesn't NEED them
2006-07-24 02:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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How to make my boyfriend come after me and realize my worth????
2015-08-04 03:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by Darryl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should realise your worth just by being your boyfriend! Unless of course, you act in a manner which doesn't earn you any respect from him (which I am sure that you wouldn't do anyway!). As for the first part of your question - how do you mean..... come after you..... do you mean chase you or bring you to orgasm first during sex?!!
2006-07-24 02:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by Tatsbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you have had a bunch of real great advice. Yes that is sarcasm. Here is a wild idea. How about talk to him about it. I mean if you're involved enough to let him screw you, some conversation shouldn't be too hard should it?
2006-07-24 02:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by devildog29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are like any other male animal - they want to do the chasing and the catching so you have to let them think that are the ones that chose you. And they always want what they think they can't have...
It's a balancing act between ignoring him so he can win you, but not to the point where he loses interest. You are the prize, but he has to win you.
Good luck.
2006-07-24 02:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize your own worth first.
2006-07-24 02:17:59 · answer #7 · answered by LaCosaMasBella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure you reach sexual satisfaction before he does. You can use a vibrator or oral means. According to Craig's list, going rate is about $150 per hour. Try charging him that.
2006-07-24 02:12:57 · answer #8 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hadn`t realize your worth since now is very low probability to realized now...i suggest you to found another one who realize that and who can apreciate you at your real value.Good luck further !
2006-07-24 02:15:49 · answer #9 · answered by Lavinia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want someone who needs to be convinced of your worth? Find someone who can see it for himself--that will be the person who deserves you.
2006-07-24 02:13:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋