why do most men think that us women are to dramatic over everything and to worried?? should we change the way we do thinks and the way we act just for them??
2006-07-24 02:06:59 · 28 answers · asked by Boricua_4u 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Because you are! But don't change the way you are for anybody!
Men and women are different - don't worry about it.
2006-07-24 02:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by nige_but_dim 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because women are emotional people. There is no reason to change for a man, although, inevitably you sort of change a little once you are in a relationship or a marriage for a long time. My husband says I worry too much about things like the bills etc...My response to him is always, how am I a worrier? I am just being logical here, worrying about things that normal people would worry about!
When I say you end up changing in a relationship..what I meant was well, you sort of end up growing together (at least you are supposed to) and you mature a lot, and sometimes even some of your beliefs change, but these are things that you should do on your own, there is no reason to change for the man...if he doesn't like how you act, or how you are, then that is ridiculous...
Be true to yourself.
2006-07-24 02:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by manderin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I go back and forth over this all the time. He says I am too emotional and I say he has no emotions. BOTH of us are exaggerating. I think that most women I know react to a situation with their hearts first and then think about it later. The men I know think about 'What 's the most logical answer here?' I don't think either response is wrong. It's just who we are. It's just one of the many beautiful differences in men and women. So, don't stop crying over hallmark commercials or sappy chick flicks( or anything else for that matter) and don't stop your victory dance when you are happy. These are all things that make you YOU. Believe it or not, if you changed, he would probably miss it!!
2006-07-24 02:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by catiebugsmama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! Women are, on the whole, more open with their emotions due to their natural role of nurture. I think that men worry about stuff quite a bit too but just don't show it. This may be due to the fact that they feel it isn't 'macho' to show that they are concerned about things but pressures can build up when you don't express your feelings or worries. After all, a problem shared is a problem halved, as the old saying goes!
I don't think that a woman should have to change the way she acts or thinks just to please a man!
2006-07-24 02:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by Tatsbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider that we all start out as female in the womb - then nature kicks in and some of us get pumped full of various hormones (testosterone mainly of course) and essentially a mutation takes place to create a male. This male has very specific tasks in life on a basic genetic level - most of them designed to protect themselves, fight other males and most importantly protect females/their mate. The simple reason women (in general) are more emotional is on the genetic level where these changes have not affected the cerebrium - men have learnt to supress or consider the "bigger" picture in a tactical sense when looking at external threats - women have to be more concerned with "the now". However, this still does not solve the amazing need to own 40 pairs of shoes............
2006-07-24 02:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men and women are so different when it comes to emotions and the way we think. We really can't change the way we are. There is that book Men are from Mars Women are from Venus... and it's true... the way we act so different from one another it does seem like we are from other planets with things.
2006-07-24 02:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by q-n-a caka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,i think men are the reason why we behaved that way if only they can do things the way we want them instead of doing the opposite of what we want or ask them to do we not worried or go crazy on them so they causes the way we act.
2006-07-24 02:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya,
Common Problem... But to be honest its just the difference in sex... woman are more emotional and expressfull whilst a man will only look at the practical points of something.. (and yes this includes relationships!!) Alas When it comes to they way us wem and women think neither sex will understand the other!!
2006-07-24 02:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by Cat ( " , ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are emotional creaturs, we think and express ourselves WAY different then men do. Don't change yourself for any man that tells you that you are too dramatic, it's who you are
2006-07-24 02:10:35 · answer #9 · answered by plastik_persephone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!!
Being yourself is special. You will end up having a hard time in life just to change and accommodate to them. You have to live happy and treasure yourself. Human without thoughts do not make you interesting. And no men will cross your path.
2006-07-24 02:17:17 · answer #10 · answered by kangaroo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋