Everyone loves to have a girlfriend or a boyfriend (depending what sex you are . . . actually it doesn't anymore {talking about bakla} . . . . lol).
Problem with the world is that some people get involved while they are too f***ing young. He change . . . she change and they split up . . . get divorced . . . or have illegitimate children.
I will talk from the male point of view . . . but it is adaptible to the female point of view.
Age requirement . . . should be at least 25 . . . don't think about marriage until after 30.
Why . . . ?
In the United States - 50% of all marriages end in divorce within 1 year and 30% of the remaining marriages end in divorce within 2 years. In California, 66% gets divorced within 1 year.
Reason . . . incompatibility.
Women say men change . . . and men say women change. - We all do . . . we don't fully become who we are until you reach 30 some later.
Men and women have fantasies, dreams, and career goals . . . they should spend their youth fulfilling their dreams and fantasies.
If you want to be a singer, work hard and become a singer. If you want to a successful business person . . . become that business person . . . Accomplished your dreams . . . because when you get married or have children before you reach your goals, your time will be divided and in most cases . . . your dreams and career goals will go down the drain . . . and you will be disappointed . . . what if . . . !
Sexual fantasies . . . both men and women have sexual fantasies . . . you know you have them . . . I still do . . . But if you get married before exploring yourself and fulfilling your fantasies . . . you will think what if and wished you had done it. One of minor reasons men and women commit adultry and cheat. Some guys don't even know they are bakla until years later . . . they had feminine tendancy and some women love that . . . but the guys discovered they are really gay . . . and leaved their wives and visa-versa. Guys think . . . I would love to have a threesome . . . (girls too even though on a lesser scale). Do it before you get in a relationship because 4 of 5 times it will ruin your relationship.
Your youth should be prized and treasure to accomplished your dreams and fantasies. Go to school, get your education and degree, fulfill your career goals, travel the world . . . . and have yourself a f***ing good time. Once you get married . . . the fun is now restricted to your spouse (so be open to him or her and tell them what you want from him or her) and when you have kids . . . it will be difficult to travel on vacation.
2006-07-31 07:42:38
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answered by Tag Your It 6
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22 up to 26
2006-07-24 01:56:04
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answered by Anonymous
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I think 25 for male 22 for a female and both partners should be emotionally mature if not the age may be extended beyond what is indicated better still emotionally immature people not marry at all for they will give birth to more bin ladens of the world.
2006-07-31 22:09:40
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answered by sumant b 4
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The age you happen to be when you are ready for the responsibilities of being married.
Some people are ready very young, early 20s, some people aren't ready until later, like after they finish college and establish a career. There is no "magic" age.
2006-07-28 05:58:11
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answered by lalalee63 2
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Women: anytime after 25. Men: over 30.
This is generally when the 2 sexes hit maturity to the point that it makes a difference in a relationship. Anything less than this is definitely too young to make a decision as great as marriage.
2006-07-24 01:35:15
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answered by GirlinNB 6
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In your late 20s early 30s, that way you have time to see what all is out their, and you have things planned out for your life. I was 18 when I got married and I wish I would have waited.
2006-07-24 09:22:45
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answered by rebel_sweetheart2005 2
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It depends on the couple. I just got married and I am 20 and my husband is 25.
Some people wait until their 30's. The age isn't what really matters, it is what you feel in your heart.
2006-07-24 04:43:30
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answered by glitter3317 4
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Mid 20's to Mid 30's... I got married at the age of 20... but I'm not saying I'm not happy... I'm very happy... I was just answering the question with my honest answer...
2006-07-24 06:10:15
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answered by -- 4
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25-35
2006-07-24 03:16:32
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answered by ChuLAD3P0nC3 2
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early 20's
2006-07-29 08:41:04
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answered by goodfriendsgo 2
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