Why do a lot of white women touch a black woman's hair without FIRST asking AND waiting for permission?

Question

...some black women may not mind, but some find this OFFENSIVE so...STOP before putting YOUR hand in someones hair..., your rudeness!

Answer 1

I'm not black but I have had people do this to me and it's friggin annoying .

Answer 2

It's not just white women touching black women's hair. I am white, and I have had lots of different people touch my hair as well.

I don't go around touching other people's hair myself. It is annoying and rude.

Answer 3

it fairly is the perfect question i have considered later on. i fairly imagine it has to do with the media, and what they see their acquaintances and households doing. i imagine for women (and it truly is only a huge gamble) they see a no-sturdy guy because the most beautiful, and the sturdy guy as (lower back, a huge gamble) gay. i imagine that some women see the "undesirable boys" because the most beautiful, and perfect aspect ever. yet however, the undesirable boys might want to be perceived as "the sturdy men" because it truly is how they first come out. Then women get so into the guy, they don't favor to go away them. i have honestly been in that challenge the position I met a guy who regarded sweet, smart, and this style of gentleman. And he changed into those issues, yet then I reported he changed into an severe gamer, he smoked weed, under no circumstances went to any of his college instructions, and had a huge anger difficulty. So i can say, I discovered from my blunders. different women, however, i comprehend it isn't any longer really easy for them. For black men, i imagine (it truly is a huge gamble too) they see the renowned athletes, stars, etc getting terrible, yet very beautiful women, they prefer that too. they could possibly comprehend the outcomes for it, yet positioned it interior the decrease back of the options to the position they does no longer care what form of girls they're. about their outfits, it truly is about the media too. They see some renowned black men positioned on particular outfits, they're going to favor to positioned on it too. (On a own word, I honestly don't have any clue why some black men positioned on their pants down low. That has became honestly one of my criteria of courting: No sagging pants, or no date) until eventually the media honestly shows black men in brilliant careers (like medical doctors, legal experts, instructors, coaches, engineers, etc), some black men and youthful toddlers will see rappers and athletes because the perfect careers interior the international

Answer 4

I'm mixed and have long hair, at least for someone of color,(don't mean to stereotype) and I don't have a problem with white women touching my hair. It is almost always black women who do and comment on how nice my hair is. It doesn't bother me though, unless they take it overboard with the touching.

Answer 5

I see why you would be fed up with it. I have long (I can almost sit on it), wavy, soft, thick hair. People see my hair and always go to touch it, telling me its so nice, I wish I had hair like yours and stuff like that. I take it as a compliment. You don't see anyone touching THEIR hair. I have actually always liked black peoples hair, its differnet from one to the next. Unique. I have never touched their hair without permission, but I know why people would be tempted to.

Answer 6

What if a white man touched your hair without asking?

Answer 7

I know what you mean ...it is very annoying to have someone touch your hair...I'm not sure why people do this and I don't know that it has anything to do with black or white or asian or any ethnicity....but I know I don't like it !

Answer 8

You shouldn't stereotype white people. Blacks don't like to be stereotyped, whites don't either. Why did you have to say white women touch black women's hair, why not just say some PEOPLE?

Answer 9

I would never touch anyones hair, white ppl also do seem so into your hair styles, and options. Maybe cuz our hair is very versitle and pretty.

I would never touch a white persons hair, never had any interest and i find their hair disgusting. I mean white ppl get bugs in their hair(EWWW), and they have sticky,stringly,oily thin hair, that sheds like an animal. THAT SH*t is nasty. Its actually very nasty. You couldn't pay me.

Answer 10

I would never touch a black woman's hair without asking. Most of the black women I know wash their hair only once a week, and the thought of me putting my hands in it is just disgusting. Little known fact...the hair is the dirtiest part of the human body (even more so than a person's genitals). Hair is very porous and absorbs everything.

Answer 11

Omg I don't touch people's hair. You must have some strange friends!