I will bring her here to get married any thoughts about meeting someone on line?I know more about her than any woman I've ever met,so O guess the internet is a cool way to meet someone as long as you are careful.
2006-07-24 00:23:49 · 14 answers · asked by Polish Love Machine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
we are FULL, please do not bring her in to the USA
2006-07-24 00:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean. I am just now returning from Pampanga, Philippines. I have a fiancee here and we have corresponded for over a year. I met her face to face just 2 months ago. You should start checking into all the requiremenst right now cause there is a lot to do and it can be very expensive. You also have to visit her in the Philippines before they will consider giving her a K-3 fiancee visa. Check with the State Dept. Good luck!!
2006-07-24 00:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Filipina and I think that you should think about this decision so very carefully, ok? You'll never know someone until you have lived with them. Email and chat is not conclusive. It's very easy to put in nice words even when you're feeling bad. You can't even be sure if someone else has been coaching her on what to say. I don't want to sound pessimistic but that's the way it really is. Try to put in more time to know her more.
By the way, I'm already married so you can't bring me there instead. Hehehe!! (Joke)
2006-07-24 00:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by Ai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you bring her here, you both need to have the option of ending things. Correspondence and internet have an element of artificality. You need the chance to be together in person, and see if it is real (lifetime commitments take more than correspondence to establish).
Respect each other enough to know that you have a good start--but still have a lot to learn about each other.
2006-07-24 00:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by Love2Sew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go visit her first and have her visit you also? You can each learn about each other by getting a look into your life with her. 6 months is not a very long time to meet someone and marry them, especially if you have never met in person. Please make sure that she is the same person you imagine her to be.
2006-07-24 00:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by cldb730 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend you have a lot of work and tremendous expense ahead of you. First of all the lady is not a citizen of the United States. You really should contact an immigration attorney and let them walk you through the process. You are in for a lot of expense and paper work with the USCIS ( formerly known as the bcis, which is the former name for the immigration service). If you truly feel like this girl is worth spending the rest of your life with, then contact an immigration attorney. Get ready for a lot of expense, this is not a cheap venture you are getting yourself into.
2006-07-24 00:31:28 · answer #6 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE CAREFUL!!A good friend of mine was corresponding with a girl from the Soviet Union for about 8 months.After falling head over heels for her,he decided to send her money to come to the U.S. After she received it, she wrote back saying it wasn't enough money.Over $1000 later, he finally realized what was up.I don't recommend this new trend.There are so many wonderful women still out there.Just have faith and keep looking.(a little closer to home)
2006-07-24 06:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by jayne s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can be a lot different over the phone or online. So different. Make sure you date in person enough to know her quirks and annoying habits, bucause she will have them. Dont have illusions of grandeur. Ive seen lots of internet marriages go sour, even though it looked like a good idea on paper.
2006-07-24 15:38:05 · answer #8 · answered by Barefoot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you are not going to support her family when you are married.You must make it quite clear that you will only marry her and not her family and relatives. This is a serious answer. Be careful. I live in Hong Kong were there are thousands of Filipino's and they all seem to send all there money back to there homes to support there families and relatives.
2006-07-24 00:41:10 · answer #9 · answered by Search 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but do not marry someone until you know them. Visit first. Get to know oneanother. That is just plain scarry. You cannot have a relationship with someone you have not known in person.
2006-07-24 00:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by adobeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've never met her, you'd be foolish to sponsor her. There are a lot of scams out there with people trying to get visas and citizenship.
2006-07-24 09:39:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋