I think its girl trouble
2006-07-24 00:19:27 · 8 answers · asked by bigal4122006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Very carefully as I expect whats happening to him right now, is the most important thing, that has ever happened to him ( yes more Important than you), so do`nt be surprised if he will not tell you anything, you will just have to be patient with him
2006-07-24 00:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by madge 51 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately girl trouble. I remember 8th grade dances!!!! I once turned down this guy for a slow dance and the look on his face was total devestation.. I was a real ***** back then...Unless he starts acting depressed, I wouldnt' push the issue too much. He may just have to work things out by himself.
2006-07-24 07:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him why is he sad don't into conclusion that is girl trouble if he Tell's you try to see thing in his way so he can feel better after that give him an advice based on how you will handle the situation or what you would have done,one more thing just listen and do some thing that will help him get over what the problem is.
2006-07-24 07:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how the dance was.. and think of any problems that you can think of that might have happened that wouldn't be a big deal like.. "Did you have enough money to get a snack.. was the music good, did you dance.. blah blah blah.." Then when you think he doesn't want to talk about anything else.. tell him " If you want to talk to me about anything at all, then I'm here."
He's what.. about 13-14?.. if it's girl trouble.. he's not going to talk to you about it.. but what you CAN do .. is let him know that you are there to talk about anything else he wants and that you're not going to judge. He might be embarassed to talk about a girl.. or he might think you won't understand.
2006-07-24 07:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by Imani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a close relationship, I mean, you talk about different issues and stuff he's going through, then I guess he won't have a problem to tell you what's wrong.
But if you don't, then I think you should give him some time and space. I'm at your son's age, and I know I would personally rather to be alone, and get over it by myself.
2006-07-24 07:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by Alice_d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 14, so i was just in 8th grade, and if i were u, dont talk to him, cuz thats somthing that he doesnt want to talk about with his mom, srry, like forget about it, and wait a few days to see if hes ok, if he is, then dont say anything about it
2006-07-24 08:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by whenyouremad23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a girl problem don't ask him any thing. He will realize all that in the days to come
2006-07-24 07:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by zyon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him find out the real reason and if its gurl trouble tell him to forget abt the gurl bcz there r many other gurls in world and it will take sum time to find the rite gurl............wen he grows a bit more bigger there will b gurls runnin behind him just hav to hav sum patience
2006-07-24 07:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by chinkyluv2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋