I used to like this guy. We have similar careers, we work at the same building and suddenly I started to like him. Found a way to meet him in the end. We made good friends, we really hit it off. But I fell in love with him the more I knew him. As I was starting to think he likes me too, I learnt that he has a gf, a long distance relationship. But my feelinds are growing. What should I do..I don't wanna tell him about my feelings yet...but he also shows some interest to me, or maybe that's my imagination..do guys flirt with girls they don't like? He's kinda flirting with me some times. Ah, I'm so confused, all I know is I love him desperately.
2006-07-24 00:04:03 · 6 answers · asked by Saskin B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First thing is you should slow way down, that is a big turn-off for a guy if a woman is coming on way too strong. I know you are looking for a serious relationship, but continue to be friends with him, and don't hang out with him too much. If you continue trying to get him to break things off with his current GF, it will only make things worse for him and you later on.
My advice is to keep on hanging out with him as "a friend" and let him decide what he wants to do, since he is the one that is currently involved with someone else. If you keep things exciting and fun, he will slowly realize what he is missing out on and drift towards you.
Good luck.
2006-07-24 00:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 10⤊ 0⤋
I would be careful if I were you. If you know he has a gf somewhere else, he shouldn't be flirting with you. Guys will flirt with girls even if they may already have a gf. Since his is long distance, he may feel lonely at times because the gf is not here. You need to find out if he is seriously in a relationship because if you continue to pursue him and he is not interested in you later, you will feel disappointed and hurt. Love can be a painful lesson.
Good Luck.
2006-07-24 00:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by Grasshopper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so dear i suppose u r dialling a wrong no.
plz get off the situation b4 u do sum thing wromg tat u wud regrate later
u know tat a person has a gf but then too u want him to be close with u, this cause a big trouble in many respects.
plz dont talk abt flirting of guys, sum guys talk as if they r flirting.
2006-07-24 00:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by miths 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...guys flirt with people they like and who seem to accept it. I am sure he is interested in you. The bad news seems to be that he already has a girlfriend. Now, unless you would like someone to take a guy from you, then I would just stand my ground and see what happens. If he wants you, he will drop his girlfriend on his own and come check you out. What you don't want to do is be his girl on the side while his girlfriend is out of town. If he does that with you and you actually end up with him, I wouldn't trust him anyways. Sooner or later you will be out of town too. If you know what I mean.
2006-07-24 00:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by moose_skinner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse guys flirt with girls they don't like .....they feel like they are validating themselves. If you two spend alot of time together than it is more than likely that he is attracted to you I say that you should take charge and go for it... tell him you are right here right NOW!!!
2006-07-24 00:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what's you feel..but that you know he had a gf, then you know he try to flirts you. that isn't good, maybe he was a playboy, but i don't think so...i just can tell you to find other guy, that's very good.
2006-07-24 00:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by griffinswinsky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋