I work over seas and I work in a country where there is really nothing to do. Since night clubs are illegal and so is alcohol. I work all the time and rarely have time to do anything else. Don’t get me wrong I do work with all kinds of people. I do take lots of trips but mostly for business so I really don’t have time to do much since my trips are jammed with meetings and dealings. The only time we have is when I go on vacation and we are together. But all she does is think I take trips with women and its getting quite old what can I do to make her realize that I am faithful.
2006-07-24 00:00:45 · 10 answers · asked by ME 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have u ever been unfaithful before to her? ......If not then u have to make her understand its your job but u need to reassure her she is number one in your life. Working away is hard being away from your loved one;s but trust is the biggest issue in a realtionship........Does she work aswell? If not then cant u use your expenses to let her come and stay with you from time to time which would prove to her what u actually do out there. That would make her feel your trying to reassure her and to keep your relationship strong... as she must be feeling lonely like u must at times being there on your own .....good luck
2006-07-24 00:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by clubbinbabe30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take her on one of your business trips...let her see your busy schedule, have her drop you off, pick you up, run some of your errands you can't run because your caught up in meetings. Try to meet her for lunch and cut it short due to a meeting, and then meet her for dinner and complain about how hectic your day has been and then go to bed tired, so she realizes that you are faithful and in fact just really busy.
If she still thinks otherwise explain to her that the foundation of any relationship is based on trust and if there is no trust that means there are cracks and the foundation and the relationship may fall through...and that it is important to be honest, to have trust and to have open communication...if these things are not there then a relationship is hard to maintain.
Also, I recommend that you both get webcams so that when ever you are chatting with each other you can see each other online so she can see you are not with anyone else...and vice versa. Another thing you can do, is call her from the moment your morning starts (before you get into the shower) and tell her you were thinking about her in the morning...then before you go to work call her again to inform her you are going to work...then if you get a break or something again give her another ring, perhaps at lunch again, then right before another meeting, then once again before and after dinner and then right before you go to bed...and if you do this and tell her exactly what activity you are doing at the moment then perhaps she will be able to see that you are being honest and are just super busy. Also email her constantly too...this way she feels like you are maintaining the connection between each other all day and she can see you are busy.
2006-07-24 00:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by monavyas15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably because she has had trust issues before in previous relationships so now it is a lot harder for her to be able to trust anyone. It is going to take time before she can start to trust you even if you haven't ever done anything wrong to betray that trust. I guess the only thing you can really do is have faith that she will realize how much you care and that you would never do anything to jeopardize the relationship. Hope it all works out!
2006-07-24 00:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by rhody07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her with you on some ot the trips in the future!!!
Or buy an laptop with webcam and mobile internet (could be expensive, but if you can afford it...), point it to your bed, so she can see you when sleeping (alone). After three times, she prob. will believe you and you can sell the laptop again.
If that doesn't help, see marriage counseling.
Do you take presents with you when coming home?
2006-07-24 00:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by · 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal. just don't try to force her to believe u r faithful. try to make her happy all the time and she' d forget about all that stuff.
2006-07-24 00:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by chiefbrino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put yo self in her shoe,lets say she is the one travellin,involve her in most of the trips,if you love her,u will want her to be happy
2006-07-24 00:13:58 · answer #6 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy for her to believe you because you're not together. Show her that she's enough for you to flirt with other girls.
2006-07-24 00:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by ress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her come with u
let her meet ur friends i dont know
call her every five mins its a hard one
2006-07-24 00:03:07 · answer #8 · answered by margaret w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it so simple, you just give her time to thing about you, women usually take time , to give answer.so you have show that now you was faithfully .ok .
2006-07-24 00:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by nurul diyana a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, try to court her again... :P
2006-07-24 00:03:30 · answer #10 · answered by athame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋