he is my ex i try relly hard to stop thinking about him i try to find aguy to go out whith but all of them seem so little compared to him i mean there is other guys that whanto go out whith me but i dont know whts wrong and this guys are very nice .and i relly dont understan why im so stuck on him if he hurt me alot of times. how do i get over him
2006-07-23 23:48:51 · 15 answers · asked by maria_e126 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Statistics say it will take you 1/2 the time to get over someone then you spent with them. For example: If you dated for 6 months, it will take you 3 to get over him.
Unless you are a glutton for punnishment and keep going back to him and keep letting him screw up your life....my motto: screw me once, shame on you.....screw me twice, shame on me!
2006-07-23 23:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dear, letting is very hard and it takes time to let go especially if you really cared for this person. You should understand that a person who hurts you more than once will do it again. Give yourself time to forget this person,try and stop communicating with him and hang out with friends as much as possible, when ever you feel the need to be with him just call up a friend and tlk ot go to the movies if you haveto.
eventually it gets easier and trust me you will get over him and you will find the right guy for you.
Good luck
2006-07-24 07:01:02 · answer #2 · answered by destiny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only 2 reasons that you can not stop thinking of him.
1. you are just used to him being arround you all the time and now that he is not you just miss his presence.
2. your in love with him. Life is full of ups and downs and relationships are over flowing with them as well. No one is perfect and every relations ship will never be all peaches and cream. There for what you need to do is make a choice on what you really what to do is stay with this person or move on..........................
2006-07-24 06:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like it. You don't like yourself very much if you are stuck on a man that treated you badly over and over again. You let him treat you that way over and over again so naturally you feel like you allowed it to happen because you loved him, no you didn't you just have issues you need to deal with because you will always be with a man that treats you this way. Love yourself and folks will follow suit.
2006-07-24 06:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maria how long did you go out with him for? He hurt you in what way, abuse? If so he isnt worth holding on to. find someone who will really and truly love you and cherish you. Dont jump from the fat into the fire. Take your time. The hurt will go away in time and you will ifnd someone believe me.Perhaps he wasyour first lover....girls tend to remember their first lover.
2006-07-24 06:53:46 · answer #5 · answered by beyond paradise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the other guys a chance. GET TO KNOW someone else. once you know another person who can share your interests, laugh at the same jokes, share your hopes and fears and your morals then you can learn to love again. you must also learn to value yourself. if your ex was horrible to you it was his problem and not yours. you are a valuable person and need to get it into your head that when someone's deliberately mean to you, you don't deserve it and you should walk away from that mean person and find someone who is going to value YOU. good luck!
2006-07-24 06:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by stingub40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's depends on you...you should accept everyone to give you a love, it's hard to do.
and you should not to compare other guy with your ex, because that will make you could not accept them. No one perfect...throw away your negative thinking.
2006-07-24 07:03:18 · answer #7 · answered by griffinswinsky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weLL.. just continue ur Life WITHOUT him. work/study harder,, do some outdoor activity Like jogging,, swimming,, or any kinda sport. i'm sure that sport wiLL heLps u a Lot..
2006-07-24 06:56:01 · answer #8 · answered by mariana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go out and have some fun time will heal
2006-07-24 06:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by danaspears2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you forget a person who is just inside your heart?????
2006-07-24 06:57:29 · answer #10 · answered by thrillerboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋