please advice me on what to do?

Question

i hav been having sex with my boyfriend for two years now, when we r not using condom, we use the withdrawal method. i guess this has worked wether its during my safe period or not. thing is i just read that one culd still get pregnant thru the withrawal method cos of a certain pre-*** b4 the main ejaculation and it contains sperm and i had no idea all this while. if this is true what do i do cos im scared, i had sex 5 times this weekend with him and we only used the withrawal method. what can i do / im going nuts over this discovery. pls i need reasonable answers and im 23

Answer 1

The difference between this weekend and the other times is that you did not have the information about having a small risk of being pregnant. Has 48 hours passed since you had sex with him, if not and your worry is about the risk of preganance, go and get the morning after pill. If its way passed then go for a test and make a responsible decision what to do despite the outcome. I am sure you have already learnt from this experience and you are going to make more informed decision in the future.

Answer 2

Yes. You can get pregnant that way. What you discovered is true. I highly recommend you go to the doctor. Not only for a pregnancy test, but also for STD tests. You never know these days what people have, whether you have been with him for two years or not. You can also talk to your doctor about the different birth control methods that are available and what will work best for you. There are plenty of other effective alternatives to the birth control pill these days, for those who tend to forget to take the pill every day. Please go to the doctor. It's the best decision you can make at this point

Answer 3

There are several forms of birth control out there. Nothing is 100% effective. If you aren't ready for kids you should be on some form of bc. You are a grown woman and if you bf doesn't have any condoms, you should have your own condoms. Using a form of bc is the responsibility of both not one. You should check the nuvaring, patch, pill, shot, etc. Still use condoms. Be a responsible adult here or you will end up with a baby.

Answer 4

I take it that you're concerned about not getting pregnant? First thing you need to do is to visit your local Planned Parenthood and ask for the Plan B pill. It is like a strong dose of birth control that will prevent a fertilized egg from attaching to the uterin wall and prevent pregnancy up to 48 hours of having unprotected sex, but the faster you take it the more likely it'll be effective. Then you need to ask the clinician for packs of birth control pills, patch, Depo, NuvaRing, something, because you are playing Russian Roulette with your stuff. Y'all will end up with a little shorty in 9 1/2 months if you keep this up.

Answer 5

You CAN still get prego w/the method you are using because of the stuff you mentioned. If you dont want to get preggo Use a condom (you should be anyway).

Did you never have sex education in school or the desire to learn more?

I have books and more books about all kids of sex; and one child to prove that withdrawl does NOT work.

Answer 6

This is for being a ***** in ur answer to my question, i am not using it for homework and what era are you living in? Use a f**cking condom! Withdrawal Methods dont work! You never know your bf might be screwing around behind your back...and plus, you could catch Herpes or other sorts of other diseases. if your scared of getting pregnant, go on the f**king pill!

Answer 7

your bets bet is to get on the pill or the shot or get the morning after pill. Or start using condoms unless you are wanting to get pregnant. The withdrawal method is not safe or preventative or much of anything because youcan still get pregnant and everything else. Its hard to get use to condoms, but they are cheap and will keep you from getting pregnant. good luck and I hope this helps.

Answer 8

Both my children were conceived using the withdraw method.
Go on the pill or only use a condom. Get an IUD. Get a diaphragm. Don't rely n the rhythm or withdraw crap shoot.

Answer 9

Baby, if you are really worried, use a condom. However, condoms are not 100% sure either not even for STD. If the relationship is serious why don't you visit a doctor and talk about safer methods?

Answer 10

Baby girl, I'm going to be real honest and tell you that you should be using some form of birth control. If not only to keep you from getting pregnant, but to keep you from possibly catching something you can't get rid of.And at 23, you dont need to be worrying over getting pregnant.