how can you say that you're in love,not infatuated??

Question

I don't know what I feel for this girl...

Answer 1

It's really for you to answer. I always know after it's over. it's more to do with whether you can see a future with her, whether you can be yourself around her and how comfortable you feel telling her what she means to you. If it's meant to be, then things should happen naturally. Go with the flow, don't put any pressure on yourself.

Answer 2

you would feel very comfortable around her. You can just be the person you are and you don't worry weather it is appropriate to talk to her about some topics. i mean you can tell her about anything. You like to look at her and it doesn't really bothers you how she looks, maybe she is having a bad hair day or break outs...you just don't care about her looks. You are at ease with her and you want to be with her. you think she is the most thoughtful girl and will always have your back no matter what. you saw your future with her, that means to say, you strongly feel that you would never get enough of her...love also takes time, if you are infatuated with someone, the feelings usually fades after few dates or you start to get bored...u know what i mean?...i mean in this case the girl whom you are talking about, you must know her for some time.... good luck!!!!