My boyfriend and I are both Catholics and don't believe in birthcontrol...condoms and pills...but we are sexual. He said that he will be able to pull his penis out before the ejaculation, can I trust him? What are my risks?
2006-07-23 23:03:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pregnancy is the only risk. Let me get this straight. You are anti-birth control because you are Catholic, but it is OK to fornicate? What do you think a priest would say about that? You are already committing a sin by fornicating, why not at least be smart about it and use birth control.
Now for your question. You cannot trust your boyfriend. You will wind up pregnant. Do you know what it is like to get no sleep for days on end because you have a baby to take care of? Do you know how hard it is to find someone to date you and like you for who you are when you have a baby? Imagine how you will feel looking at your baby and knowing that guys are taking advantages of yo9u for sex because that is all you have to offer now that you have a baby and will likely be working two jobs to support it. I don't know. What do you think the risk is?
2006-07-23 23:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by 3 Card 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't take anyone's word for it. Before ejaculation men release something called "precu m" This may contain sperm as well. The only way to assure that there is no risk of pregnancy is not to have sex, but since you guys are already sexual i suggest you don't have intercourse. Men can lose control during orgasms and may not be able to control himself. Also, not that I'm saying he does, but he may have an std if he has not been checked out, you're at risk of many studs that are going around such as AIDS. And I understand you guys not believing in condoms or birth control, but my whole family is Catholic, and if they think they are at risk then they definitely use protection no matter what the circumstances are. (I however am an Atheist). Also if you follow the Catholic religion strictly you guys wouldn't be having sexual intercourse because premarital sex is not prohibited in the Catholic church.
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2006-07-23 23:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ The One You Love To Hate♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this is complicated :)
For my partner & me it works but we aren't doing this all the time! And I am taking my temperature too, so it's different.
BUT if you do not know him well DO NOT RISK.
It has been 8 years now that we are together and the first time we decided to try this was a year or two ago:) But I was sure that hes would be able to because I know him well. But it could be dangerous because there is sperm even in the trnasparent liquid that is there before a man ejaculates + there can be sperm without you or him knowing it. On the whole, if you do this, do it when it is safe :)
2006-07-23 23:12:15 · answer #3 · answered by mikkenzi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 14:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off your half assed catholics cause no SEX before marriage. besides STDs, pregency and emotional issues.........you need to ask yourself this question with this Oh so wondeful boyfriend of yours.are you willing to spend the rest of your life connected to this guy and are you ready to commit to giving up your life to raise a child.not metion what the congrgation will think of you.....if sex is a must don't be DUMB buy the condoms or go on the pill........better yet ask for your boyfriends.last 3 w2's so when he has to pay child support you know exactly how much your entitled to. Mutual masturbation never hurt anyone........
2006-07-23 23:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by answering 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not saying your boyfriend isn't trustworthy but I don't think he'd be able to pull out before ejaculating. The risks are becoming pregnant, and getting any STDs he may have (IF he has any). I hope I helped
-Ace
2006-07-23 23:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT RISK IT! There is no such thing as pulling out. He will be pre-cumming while he is in you. & even that is enough to get you pregnant. If you don't want to get pregnant, I suggest you push your religion to the side & get some form of birth control. If not, this could ruin the rest of your life. & just imagine how your Catholic parents are going to be when they find out you're pregnant.
2006-07-23 23:07:57 · answer #7 · answered by yorkie lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because any time before a man ejaculates he releases pre-ejaculatory fluid which does contain sperm. So there is still a high chance that you can get pregnet even if he uses the 'pull out' technique. Please use a condom unless you want to get pregnet.
2006-07-23 23:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by greenmonster9269 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if he pulls out before ejaculating, there's still the risk of getting pregnant. during sex, there's pre-sem and that can cause pregnancy and also if he pulls out and ejaculates and puts it back in, u cld also get pregnant because some of the semen is left in. i think u better start believing in birth control.
2006-07-23 23:09:18 · answer #9 · answered by chiefbrino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your risks are an unwanted life you've risked creating. Anytime a man is in a woman he has pre ejaculatory fluid that can easily impregnate a woman.
2006-07-23 23:08:49 · answer #10 · answered by J P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋