not that you're going to do anything but wait for it to pass, but how is this possible?
2006-07-23 22:46:23 · 17 answers · asked by mmaybe mme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The answer is yes. Most often people forget that Love and Attraction are two different things. Yes you can be attracted to the one that you love but you don't necessary be in love with the one you are attracted to.
So my advise it to keep it in your pants and leave it in the spank drawer. Attraction is not worth ruining Love.
2006-07-23 22:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by x0zx 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about this. I love my fiancé more than I ever thought possible, I can't wait to marry him and I can't imagine ever being with anyone else. That doesn't mean that from time to time I don't have a conversation with someone else that gets a little joky and flirty, and I could see how if things were different I could maybe be attracted to them. But at the same time I'm not actually attracted to them, because all my energies are poured into my relationship.
Having said that, everyone is different and maybe some people are able to be with the love of their life and be attracted to another person too. I just couldn't imagine it for myself.
Just make sure the person you think is the love of your life really is the love of your life! Then it won't matter at all - if you're committed to that 100% and see the rest of your life as being with that person and no other and can't even imagine being with anyone else (and they feel the same, otherwise they can't be the love of your life), then passing attractions for other people really aren't that important are they?
2006-07-24 06:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by pomme_blanche_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy feeling attracted to any people you feel attracted to, it doesn't have to pass though, and you shouldn't feel guilty about it. You're happy with your partner now though right? Otherwise you would have not said the 'love of your life'. I fancy anything in a skirt.
2006-07-24 06:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by syelark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is possible. Attraction is chemistry. Love is including, but beyond that.
I mean, you cannot control the pheromones, etc., that the other person is emitting. As long as you don't give in to the attraction and stay faithful, it will pass, and you can be happy. We humans are supposed to be able to overcome the desire of the flesh, you know. Not supposed to be able to avoid feeling it :)
2006-07-24 05:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of cos, coz love n attraction r 2 very different things. The problem in this world is we normally confuse the two. Bein attracted to someone dont mean u must have sex with them.
2006-07-24 05:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by ahmed-hamid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its possible and not unhealthy or abnormal at all. We all find attractions to people for certain reasons and its completely normal. I was attracted to someone only because a lot of their characteristics reminded me of my fiance. Ofcourse it passed.....but yes it is normal to have these feelings.
2006-07-24 05:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by Amynesiac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to it depends what you mean by being attracted? is it sexual or are you attracted to the qualities of that person? if it is sexual then you have not found the love of your life. if it's their qualities you are attracted to then. they could be your soul mate - we have more than one. I'm attracted ot many people who i have a deep love for because they are good people, i would not/want to do anything with them.
i would need to know more to answers your q. further.
good luck
2006-07-24 06:01:59 · answer #7 · answered by sharon w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is happening to me right now because I've been with my bf for almost 5 yrs so were like high school Sweet hearts but this guy that i know said he has a crush on me and I would always see him around but we would hardly talk well the point is that i think about this guy and i would like to get to know him but i am happily in love with my bf
2006-07-24 05:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly natural. It is just your hormones but it is not reccomended for a good relationship. Eventually it will go away but be careful. It can get you into a lot of trouble.
2006-07-24 05:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as there are beautiful people walking around you will always be physically attracted to someone. Be it for their smile. their body.. or their personality. so long as you don't act on yourself then I think it's perfectly normal.
2006-07-24 06:09:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋